SEXUAL URGE AND PURITY:

It is not within my confines to inform you of what you did not already know but to remind you about this truth, the human sexual urge which if well understood will help man attain purity of thoughts and desires for the same as well as the opposite sex, sanity of mind, body and spirit. This also brings peace to the being of a man which the world cannot give.

We can define this aspect of man as an invisible force which greatly affects the visible nature of man since the life of every living thing is in the blood {‘for the life of the flesh is in the blood…’ Lev.17:11} and a human being is said to be alive when his heart still has the ability to circulate blood efficiently to every part of the body then this unseen but ever active force is contained within the blood of every living human being.

From the above we can ascertain that this force is available and active in the blood of every living human being thus at conception when a child is formed in the womb of a woman as a blood in the form of a foetus that child automatically inherits this force from the parents with or without his consent and knowledge till later years of reasoning in life when certain physical changes begins to occur and subsequent psychological disposition towards others (same or opposite sex) just as the parents accepts the sex of the child with no option to change it to their own suited choice of sex prior to the moments of intimacy that led to the fertilization of the egg. This leads us to define sexual urge as one of the gifts of God to man which he cannot reject, rather he needs to accept it for what it truly is; a gift from the hands of a loving father who does not wish to stain or spoil the bond and love existing in the father-child relationship. Everything giving by the father to the child is to make the child have a sense of belonging and add value to him which in turn yields respect as well as appreciation for the father’s show of love, care and concern. No wonder the unleashing of God’s wrath on Onan {“But since Onan knew that the offspring would not be his, he spilled his semen on the ground whenever he went in to his brother’s wife, so that he would not give offspring to his brother. What he did was displeasing in the sight of the Lord and he put to death also” Gen.38:9-10} when he willingly spilt this life-giving fluid on the ground during intercourse with his brother’s wife for selfish purposes and daring the injunctions of God that anyone who sheds blood commits murder and will pay with his own blood for in his own image God made man {Gen.9:6}. These behaviors are still recurrent in our generation under the auspices of prostitution, abortion legalization, contraceptive production/sell/use and dissemination, worship of obscenity, human nakedness and nudity by the movie industry and media, insult and degradation of human nakedness and physique by the fashion world, masturbation, gay-rights legalization, upload and download of half-nude/nude pictures and videos on the internet as well as its encouragements via follow-up comments, castration of human beings, female circumcision and mutilation of sexual organs, change of sexual organs through plastic surgery e.t.c

Looking critically at what Onan did with his fluid, the immediate response of God and its recurring trend in our generation as mentioned above we will notice the following; the conscious awareness of an inherent emotion, this emotion calls for attention and adequate satisfaction in order to enable man enjoy his existence without destroying himself, the clarion call from within the self, parental upbringing and environmental influence through observation, study, and instructions to attend to this emotion, but there is a hitch which is the absence of the best concept and knowledge to attend to this emotion in order to attain adequate satisfaction without self-destruction and distortion of inner peace which he inherited from his Source {GOD} the father of peace. To clear this hitch man needs to ask these basic questions; ‘this emotion where cometh thou?’ (Where is this emotion from?) And “where tends thou?” [‘Where are you heading to?’ “What purpose will man achieve with your company?”] .

Sexual urge is a gift of God to man from conception as defined by the words “…be fruitful and multiply and fill the earth and subdue it…” {Gen.1:28}. God never gave man what will bring him dishonor or create enmity between Him (the Creator) and man [the Creature] rather He gave us everything that is necessary to enhance this our union with him of which sexual urge is one of them. From the Sacred scriptures we can observe that the gifts of God to man where given to him as subservient nature and not a compulsive emotion or feeling hence we can control them if we dispose ourselves to their true origin {‘for God did not give us a spirit of cowardice, but rather a spirit of power and of love and of self-discipline’ 2Tim.1:7/ Gen.4:6-7/ Sirach18:30-31}.

Sexual urge is an emotion, a force, a passion and an aspect of a man’s nature that was given to our first parents Adam and Eve by the phrase “multiply and subdue the earth” and is being transferred from one human generation to another at conception that is they are already in the life-blood of every human being that is in existence thus at every distribution or outpouring of human fluids {blood, semen, saliva e.t.c} either willingly or unwillingly this energy and life-giving strength is transferred, shared or wasted with or without conscious awareness of its consequences to human subsistence on earth. Since the nature of human fluid is greatly affected by what we eat and drink; we can clearly say that our feeding habit has a lot to do with our sexual urge.

Sexual urge can also be defined as the conscious awareness of an inherent emotion/force/passion within a human being, this force propels a man consciously or unconsciously to notice every other thing outside of him, later on himself then compare which of the externals possess similar qualities to himself; he appreciates every other things in nature but seeks an endearing union with this object that is similar to him, this attraction comes primary from the physical stature/physique which the other possess whether same or opposite sex which promises to provide a higher level companionship since both share similar quality [both are human being] thus Adam exclaimed after the creation of Eve “this at last is bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh; this one shall be called woman, for out of Man this one was taken” (Gen.2:23)

Sexual urge helps us to appreciate everything outside of us because of their need for survival, complete and fulfilled existence nevertheless attracts man with each other as mates {human beings} because of their similarity to each other which stems from physical appearance and stature no wonder at the sight of Eliab; David’s brother and the first son of Jesse God said to Samuel ‘…do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him; for the Lord does not see as mortals see; they look on the heart’ (1 Sam.16:7) defining the limited state of man’s perception of truth and life by what is seen in the physical thus Paul inspired by the Most High gave us the best way to the perception of life’s realities and truth “for we walk by faith, not by sight”{2 Cor.5:7}

As human beings who have mind, body and spirit created by God who is holistically a Spirit Being though he manifested himself in human form through his Son Jesus Christ {Heb.1:3} and other forms like tongues of fire, water and cool breeze as the Holy Spirit (Acts.2:1-5), he has given us gifts which are from the spirit realm hence we cannot be able to use in the correct way any gift of God until we denote its purpose in the spirit realm thus genuine satisfaction for every gift of God must be first attained in the spirit then put to use in the physical to glorify God and edify the world created by God and its inhabitants no wonder Jesus reacted thus “at that time Jesus said, I thank you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and the intelligent and have revealed them to infants; yes, Father, for such was gracious will” (Mtt.11:25-26). With the above, Our Master Jesus taught us that prayer is a spiritual gift giving to those who believe they are little, do not know how to paddle life’s torrent tide with all the gifts, emotions, talents and spiritual gifts but are consistently conscious on every second bases that there is a Higher Being that brought them forth in this earth who alone bestowed all these on him and will be in the best position to help him access  as well as put them into effective and efficient use of HIS glory on earth as well as edification of human race.

It is therefore pertinent that we understand the reason why God instilled sexual urge in a man from the spirit realm. The reason is to make man desire complete companion with his source {GOD} and return to his Creator, this gift of God to man is like a hook God uses to draw men to himself in their bid to flee from his presence by trying to use what is seen in the world to satisfy this desire in the following ways marriage, fornication, adultery, bestiality [sexual intercourse with animals], pornography, masturbation, exhibitionism (exposing one’s half-nude personality, complete nudity, encouraging others to do same and enhancing such school of thoughts or philosophy), prostitution and homosexual school of thought, production/sell/use and dissemination of contraceptives as well as anti-life philosophy. This is a move made by man to attend to his emotions with the wrong concept and understanding that what is seen can satisfy what is not seen, from the time of Adam till date many have gotten drunk with the wine of lust and could not attain satiety or satisfaction of sexual urge using all these means mentioned above. Many young men and women get frustrated in marriage after long years of keeping their physical virginity while they have built up their emotions, desires and hopes on lust with pornography, sexual imaginations, porn-magazines and toys, porn-ideas of sex and what sexual intercourse should be like between married people under the pretext of virginity till marriage only to find out that their spouse is not a sex-machine hence the issues of ‘we are not sexually compatible’/ ‘I am in love with another person outside my marriage partner’/ “infidelity” which stakes up to 95% of broken homes and marriages today.

Sexual urge as a hook that sticks unto the throat of man can be defined thus just like a fish gets glued to a bait on a hook, those who saw this emotion in them and started making enquiries into its source, purpose and best channel in order to attain adequate co-existence with this emotion inherent in every man in every age which is a gift from God who is on high and uses different gifts to draw our attention to His Existence and our utmost dependency in Him who created us in order to remind us that we came from Heaven where he dwells and we need to return back to our home {Heaven; Phil.3:20} having put to efficient and effective use all those gifts he presents to us every second as a reminder of his Existence and the need to return home safely. The only and correct Being who can and should answer the question about the origin and purpose of this emotion in man is the Creator of man {GOD} and he made this invitation “call on me and I will answer you and I will teach you great and mighty things you know nothing about” [Jer.33:3]

After many years of research and prayer into sex, sexual urge, sexual intercourse, sexuality and love-making

My questions during these period where

Why is this force so high in me that it seems I cannot do without it via porn, gazing at women lustfully, using the imagination to undress a woman whether well dressed, half-nude or nude and have sex with her, gazing at women’s nudity at different porn-sites and lesbian dating sites?

ANSWER:

Your desires are real, authentic and Genuine.

I gave it to you from conception and to men of every age

I am a Spirit Being and what I give are spiritual

They cannot be satisfied with the physical

I gave it to you in order for you to search for the source of your desire

I am the source of your desire

It is my indwelling-presence that your soul, spirit and body desires

Your whole Being desires to be consistently filled and connected with his source and origin every second

Make me your desire every second

Renew this consciousness within you every second

You will be pure in thoughts, words, attitude and desires

Your love for human beings (same and opposite sex) will be pure, genuine and authentic.

Your love for wealth, acquisitions and other created things will be sound

Sanity, Peace, Joy and Gladness will envelope your whole Being

You will discover the serenity in every passing moment of this earthly sojourn

Every second of your life on earth will become worth living

Your faith will become worth dying for without compromise

                   ------- I AM WHO AM --------