No relationship is ever completely perfect. However, you can make your relationship as enjoyable as possible for you and your partner. It's all about finding a balance between each others needs. This is the psychology of relationships.
It is important in a relationship to be able to recognize destructive behavior patterns that have the potential to push your partner away. Men and women have very different ways of communicating their needs and frustrations, and this can cause problems.
For women, it's important to understand that men place more importance on actions than they do words. So, perhaps instead of constantly trying to get your man to talk about your issues, try to think instead of actual firm actions that can be taken to address things.
For men, it is important to remember that women really need to be listened to and understood. If you feel that things don't seem quite right in your relationship, but you're not sure why, just take some time out to sit down and listen to what she has to say. It is also important to ask questions about what she has just said, in order to clarify what she means. Remember: it might not mean she wants you to particularly do anything; she just wants you to understand how she feels.
And this is all there really is to it. Women just want attention. They just want to feel like you care. They just want you to listen to them and feel like you understand them.
Most break-ups are totally unnecessary, and the majority relationships that end could have actually been saved if only the people involved knew what to do to. Don't be one of the many people who let their relationship fall apart.
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