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Thursday, August 31, 2017

SOMETHING ABOUT PORNOGRAPHY

Pornography is glorified prostitution.The "actors" are paid to do what they do no different than a hooker turning a trick.
To the proponents of pornography I always present this argument...
How many parents say ..."I hope when my little girl grows up, she'll get into porn."
How many men say...."I want to marry a porn star."
Or..
"Yeah my mom or sister do porn for a living."
That woman on the screen is someone's mom, sister, daughter and even wife. How would you see it if it were yours?
The people involved in porn are broken souls with backgrounds often stemmed in child/sexual abuse and substance abuse. This is the REALITY of pornography.
And there is an ever increasing blurry line between pornography and family entertainment... {CMG}

Tuesday, August 29, 2017

I AM WRITING THIS LETTER

*I AM WRITING THIS LETTER TO THOSE WHO ARE GENUINELY BORN AGAIN, BUT THEY ARE STRUGGLING WITH SOME SECRET SINS... BECAUSE, I WAS THERE!*_
There is something glorious about your future God will show you, you will not need your pastor to keep preaching holiness message to you daily...
When you see a girl singing in the choir, yet, from the choir, she keeps sexual appointments, check that girl, she has not seen anything yet about her future...
When you see a young boy who dresses to church, to seduce those small girls to bed and his mates will be clapping for him, check that boy, he has a spiritual eye problem...
He hasn't seen anything about his future yet...
If you do it again and again and again, God will forgive you again and again and again...
But, while He is busy forgiving you, angels are busy searching for some one else heaven will use to replace you ...
What separates men before God is not how long they can pray or how much scriptures they know...
The value God places on people is not determined by the position they occupy in the church...
But how much they can bear for His Name sake...
Some times, He allows your salary to be delayed, to know if you will start stealing in your office...
Sometimes, He allows some lose ladies to start suggesting sex with you, to know if you have grown...
But unfortunately, you still fall again ....
Yes, He will forgive....
But, you will still remain in the same class in the school of glory...
Decision separates men...
There is an OIL that comes with separation...
The weight of a man is buried in the decisions he makes when no one is watching him ...
Many times, God allows you to be lonely so that you can be holy...
Forget this public revival messages all of us are preaching...
Many are still behind in the school of glory...
Not because they chose to, but because they still don't want to pay the price of separation...
If it takes a man to be married to be responsible, we will not have many married irresponsible men scattered all over the place who are renting houses for their girlfriends, while their wives are still at home....
When a man is due for marriage, he should get married...
But don't tell me to get married because you want me to escape fornication...
Marriage is not an escape route into a responsible life...
What you cannot control when you are single has the power to control you even when you are married ...
No matter how beautiful your wife will be, you will still see other beautiful ladies....
Teach me how to die to flesh sir...
Teach me that I can live alone in a house alone and yet, I will not think rubbish thoughts...
Joseph was not married before he ran away naked from Portiphar's wife bedroom ...
It was not a marital ring on his finger that made him refuse that gesture....
But because he knew the future God has planned for Him will be messed up by a single decision....
I want to raise a generation of young boys and girls that will love God where no one is seeing them ...
I want to raise a breed that doesn't appear holy only when they see their parents or their pastors...
This holiness by dressing is sending people from choir seats to hell fire...
They are dying in secret sins, yet, they have none to cry to, because, once they confess, they will be stigmatized...
Consequently, we are raising a generation that is speaking in tongues on their way to hell...
Sister, singing in choir doesn't confer value on men before God, but decision...
Stop attaching your spiritual growth on night vigils where you go and flog enemies ...
God is waiting for you when no one is there...
If you can succeed there, you will be a commander of the supernatural...
The greatest tool against the end time church is the adulteration of the message of grace...
They teach you that God will forgive...
But they will not teach you that God will not promote you to another class...
No matter how you love your child, you will not give him your car key to use when you know he has not perfected his driving...
As long as that child is finding it hard to drive perfectly, he will keep trekking to school...
There is someone reading this posts now, heaven is saying that you are due for manifestation, but you have not made a decision yet...
You are still afraid of hunger....
You don't want to starve....
You are ashamed of what people will say when you stop sleeping with men for money to pay bills...
They have even told you that there is no young person like you that doesn't have sexual partners...
That human beings were wired by God to fall and rise again...
Several times, you have made moves to delete all those phone numbers that connect you to your vomits...
But you have been afraid of the days of loneliness...
You don't want to miss those cuddles...
You don't know if you can ever look into his eyes and tell him: "No more sex"...
Even if he accepts, you are afraid that you might never cope...
Sister, don't let weekend orgasm rob you of eternal value...
Your enemy is no more that witch in the village....
But any man that is making you comfortable in a place of rebellion with God ...
Don't be in church singing in the choir and God will go to the nearest hotel and catch a prostitute, wash her, clean her and fill her with His power...
I know you have been trying to make amends ...
You have answered altar calls several times, yet, you still fall back, even more deeper ...
Some of us were there not too long ago...
Singing in choir, leading in powerful prayer sections, yet, battling with addictions...
Worse of all we were afraid to tell anyone...
Because, people around would never have understood how much we were trying to be better ...
We bought different anointing oil, from different men of God, yet, we were not free...
We even afflicted ourselves with fastings...
Yet, nothing changed ...
Until we encountered the Word of God.....
When Jesus said that " We are made clean by the Words that I speak unto you..."
We began to read and study the Bible...
Like Job, we began to esteem God's Word above our necessary food...
Gradually, addictions began to lose its grip...
God began to change our appetites...
Until today, the darkness is past, the true Light now shineth ...
Brother, I want to recommend you to the Word of God....
The Word of God will settle that lust issue...
Don't go and rush into marriage if you are not ready, because you want to avoid temptation...
The spirit of lust does not respect wedding ring...
Especially now that our sisters who are still in Babylon even prefer having it with married men ...
There are still single guys who are serving God in spirit and in truth...
5 chapters of the bible every day and 1 hour prayers or more...
You will see that your mind will stop going to those thoughts ...
Jesus did not say it is easy...
But He said that with God all things are possible ...
Your heart is beating faster now as you are reading this...
You are wondering if you will ever get free from the things you are struggling with...
Friend, that God that did it for us, He will show up on your case...
Receive grace to feast on the Word from now....
In Jesus Name...please teach the young ones in your church and God bless you.
Pls share 2 save someone
Shalom!!!

Sunday, August 27, 2017

FRUIT OF THE WOMB

FRUIT OF THE WOMB:
"THERE WILL BE NONE THAT IS BARREN IN THE LAND" {Exodus 23:26},
 "He GIVES the BARREN WOMAN a HOME, making her the JOYOUS MOTHER OF CHILDREN..." {Psalm 113:9},
 "THERE IS NOTHING IMPOSSIBLE WITH GOD" {Luke 1:37}, 
"Sons are indeed A HERITAGE from THE LORD, the FRUIT OF THE WOMB A REWARD" {Psalm 127:3},
 "Your WIFE will BE like A FRUITFUL VINE within your HOUSE; YOUR CHILDREN will BE like OLIVE SHOOTS around YOUR TABLE" {Psalm 128:3}. 
Keep SPEAKING THESE WORD OF GOD INTO YOUR LIFE, YOUR HUSBAND. 
Ask the HOLY SPIRIT for the HELP to WAIT upon HIM for HIS APPOINTED TIME for you and your husband despite family pressures and societal gossips {"At the appointed TIME...." Galatians 4:4}. 
ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO HELP BOTH OF YOU TO SPEND MORE TIME STUDYING, UNDERSTANDING AND BELIEVING HIS WORDS WRITTEN IN THE HOLY BIBLE rather than running from pillar to post looking for MIRACLES that are RESIDING INSIDE BOTH OF YOU because "THE KINGDOM{POWER AND MIRACLE} OF GOD IS WITHIN YOU {BOTH}" {Luke 17:21}. 
Also both of you should go to a GENUINE GYNECOLOGIST, do the necessary check-ups and treatments where NECESSARY but your PRIMARY focus of HEALING AND MIRACLE should be based ON THE WORD OF GOD which breaks down every rock into pieces no matter how BIG thus "Is MY WORD not LIKE FIRE, says THE LORD, like HAMMER that SHATTERS ROCKS into PIECES" {Jeremiah 23:29}. 
Bear in mind also THAT THE WORD OF GOD is SEED; thus whenever you speak it, you have planted A SEED, SEED grows from STALK to-- HEAD then to --FULL GRAIN {Mark 4:28}. 
IT CAN MANIFEST IMMEDIATELY and it can take a TIME-FRAME thus "though it TARRY'S it will SURELY COME TO PASS" {Habbakuk 2:3} but bear it in MIND that THE WORD OF GOD will NEVER RETURN TO GOD without FULFILLING ITS PURPOSE {Isaiah 55:11}. 
The purpose of GOD'S WORD is to HEAL US from SIN/CONDEMNATION/SICKNESS/REPROACH/AFFLICTION and GIVE US THE BEST THING GOD HAS DESIGNED for us BEFORE the FOUNDATION OF THE WORLD thus "He SENT OUT HIS WORD and HEALED THEM and DELIVERED THEM from DESTRUCTION" {Psalm 107:20}. 
In conclusion, I have a friend whose wife just gave birth to SET OF TWINS {TWO BOYS} after almost 14 YEARS. 
GOD DID IT at HIS OWN APPOINTED TIME,
 it does not mean you must wait till 14 years, NO! 
JUST DWELL IN GOD'S WORD, SPEAK IT {"We believe and we SPEAK and with the same eye of FAITH, I BELIEVE therefore I HAVE SPOKEN" 2 Cor.4:13}, 
take positive actions according his inspiration to YOU and EXPECT HIS SURE MANIFESTATIONS thus "The EARNEST EXPECTATIONS OF THE RIGHTEOUS shall NEVER BE CUT-SHORT..." {Proverbs 23:18}.

GROW IN THE WORD

"Your word is a lamp to my feet
And a light to my path." {Psalm 119:105}
Build YOUR LIFE ON GOD'S WORD
Your emotions
Your Decisions
Your Business Ideas
Your Choice of Friends
Your Choice of Spouse
Your Reasoning
Your Fleshly desires
Your Spirit desires
Your Soul desires
Your Ideas
Your Profits
Your Choice of words
Your Purpose in life
Your Vision and Mission Statement
on the Word of God, YOU WILL NEVER EVER REGRET IT.
This entails you need to know what the Scriptures says about all these hence you need to STUDY THE WORD OF GOD "EVERY-TIME"
Much more than your NECESSARY FOOD thus
"I have not departed from the commandment of His lips;
I have kept the WORDS of His MOUTH more than my NECESSARY food." {Job 23:12}
Stop cheating yourself by missing Bible Studies, House-fellowships, Prayer-meetings, Catechesis/Sunday-Bible Studies, Evangelism, Home-to-home Evangelism/Visitations, Bus-Evangelism e.t.c.
because it is THE HOLY SPIRIT that is SPEAKING, TEACHING AND BUILDING {"for it is not YOU speaking, but the SPIRIT of YOUR FATHER speaking THROUGH YOU." Matt.10:20} both the speaker and the listener.
Both the Speaker and the listeners BENEFIT in EVERY MUTUAL SHARING OF GOD'S WORD
thus
"For I long to see you so that I may SHARE with YOU some spiritual gift, to STRENGTHEN and ESTABLISH YOU; that is, that WE may be MUTUALLY ENCOURAGED and COMFORTED by EACH other’s faith, both YOURS and MINE." {Romans 1:11-12}
Make a decision to ATTEND BIBLE STUDIES/CATECHESIS TODAY in the evening for those whose fellowship hold on Sundays
Make a decision to attend all the Bible fellowship holding this week in your fellowship, do not be scared of your job/business/family/societal responsibilities just ask the HOLY SPIRIT to HELP YOU partake in HIS WORD FULLY THIS WEEK. Just let him re-arrange the atmosphere for you to GROW IN HIS WORD
Ask the HOLY SPIRIT to HELP YOU spend more of your PERSONAL TIME STUDYING HIS WORD ON YOUR OWN with HIS PRESENCE, UNDERSTANDING and WILLINGNESS TO APPLY HIS WORD/PRINCIPLES in every situation of your life despite the distractions, emotional sentiments, fears, doubts, economic-uncertainties, previous failures/hurts/pains, threats and confusions of life.
GOD IS HIS WORD
HIS WORD HAS NEVER FAILED
GOD IS UNDER OBLIGATION TO FULFILL HIS WORD BECAUSE HIS NATURE IS "FAITHFULNESS" not because there is ANY BEING, ANY WHERE who can compel him to oblige HIS WORD
thus
"If WE are FAITHLESS, HE REMAINS FAITHFUL [TRUE to His WORD and HIS RIGHTEOUS CHARACTER], for HE CANNOT DENY HIMSELF." {2 Timothy 2:13}.

Friday, August 25, 2017

THE SIN OF PORNOGRAPHY

PORN was not made for entertainment or fun it was made
purposely to destroy both the actors and their viewers. It
feeds man with lust and makes him hungry for more. That
is what result in masturbation and all abominable sexual act.
Ignorant men and women love to watch it for fun not
knowing that they are inviting demons of lust to themselves.
It is a great doorway for demonic
entrance. They don't need to have spare keys to be in your
room. They only need you to watch their product and they
will come in through the walls! If you sit down alone to
watch something on the TV please have it in mind that you
are not alone. There are evil beings looking out for your
weaknesses to attack you. When demons get to
know that you are weak in a particular area, they will make
it difficult for you to overcome
it. You will understand why people keep on falling back into
the same sin over and over again!
The good news is, you can still win and
overcome! in Jesus. Through discipline, prayer
and fasting. Otherwise, those demons will put
stumbling blocks in your paths to trap you so
we can't afford to be careless friends.
Too many men and women are hooked to porn and are
struggling to
overcome it after seeing the damaging side of it.
Even some pastors fall into it. We should know
that the actors are being used by demons to go
to that extreme to degrade their bodies.
Married men and women who get addicted to porn find it
difficult to sleep with their own spouses, young men and
young ladies who are not married will also masturbate.
Porn is very addictive, it is easy to watch but
hard to walk away from. They have labelled it
as *"adult channel"*
it isn't so it is *abominable channel!!*
A colleague of mine told me years
back that it is alright to watch porn with your
spouse if you are married, that was a lie! I disagreed with
him. I wasn't as ignorant as he was. If Jesus wouldn't watch
why should we? knowing that we are His bride and His
temple.
People who watch porn end up having strong
irresistible sexual urges, because they have
invited the demon of lust to live in them. Once the spirit
brings up the desire you can't stand the pressure but do it
with whoever you get,
whether your close relative, a child or even animal .
This has ended many into prison.
The rate at which sex offenders are increasing is
alarming in our society. Friends, close your eyes from
watching obscene pictures before it destroys you. Some
people have the nerves to
post porn's on Christian sites on Facebook and other social
media. Please delete or block such people straight
away! They are sending people to hell!.
A man who was addicted to porn
confessed that his whole life was destroyed by it. It distorted
his
image on how he viewed women. He saw women as
nothing more than mere *"sex tools"*
*Romans 6:13*
"Neither yield ye your members as instruments of
unrighteousness unto sin: but yield yourselves God, as those
that are alive from the dead and your members of
righteousness unto God"
What will help one to overcome this sin is the holy fear of
God in a man, knowing that it will be a shame to set your
eyes on vulgar images
when the Lord is seated next you.
PORN IS DEADLY!!! Destroy it before it destroys you.
Keep yourself pure!!! You are God's temple!!!!
*PLS SHARE TO SAVE A SOUL.

{OKONKWO JOYCE NORAH}

Thursday, August 24, 2017

THE DECEITFULNESS AND DANGERS OF MASTURBATION



Masturbation is both deceptive and extremely
dangerous. The deceit in masturbation is that
many believers indulging in it assume that it is
not sinful because it does not involve another
person. That is exactly why satan has found
masturbation a potent tool to destroy the lives
and purpose of the Children of God. Satan is
happy to keep you deceived while you
masturbate your soul away.
You must know that sexual sin is not an act but
a state of your heart. Jesus said, “But I say unto
you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust
after her hath committed adultery with her
already in his heart.” (Matthew 5:28 KJV) So the
fact that you did not actually have sex with a
person does not mean you cannot commit sexual
sin. In fact, the sexual act is a physical
manifestation of a sin that has taken place in the
heart.
Let me quickly share with you some of the
dangers of Masturbation.
Masturbation is a sexual sin and it is a sin
against your body because it defiles you.
Remember, the Holy Spirit dwells in the body of
a believer. To commit sexual sin is to defile your
body and sin greatly against your own self. The
Bible says, “Flee fornication. Every sin that a
man doeth is without the body; but he that
committeth fornication sinneth against his own
body. What? know ye not that your body is the
temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which
ye have of God, and ye are not your own?” (1
Corinthians 6:18-19 KJV)
Masturbation opens your life up for demonic
operations and attack. Sinful habits are
attractive to demons. By willingly indulging in
such sin, you invariably give them the authority
to manipulate and influence you. The Bible says,
“He that diggeth a pit shall fall into it; and whoso
breaketh an hedge, a serpent shall bite
him.” (Ecclesiastes 10:8 KJV)
Masturbation will kill your prayer life. The devil
really loves this. You cannot finish masturbating
and raise your hands to God to worship and pray.
Guilt will not allow you to pray. Masturbation is a
tool in the hand of satan to destroy the prayer
life of believers thereby making them weak. The
Bible says, “I will therefore that men pray every
where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and
doubting.” (1 Timothy 2:8 KJV)
Unless your conscience becomes seared,
masturbating will constantly make you live in
guilt. It takes the joy of the Lord away from you
and gives you a guilty conscience. It basically
makes a mess of your life. A guilty conscience
will drive you away from the presence of God. It
was guilty conscience that made Adam hide
himself from God after he sinned. Masturbation
allows your conscience to torment you. The
Bible says, “Holding faith, and a good
conscience; which some having put away
concerning faith have made shipwreck:” (1
Timothy 1:19 KJV)
Masturbation keeps you from seeing God. The
Bible says blessed are the pure in heart for they
shall see God. (Matthew 5:8) The evil thought
and imaginations that usually go with
masturbation corrupt and defile your heart.
Masturbation is addictive. The devil does not just
want you to commit sin; he also wants you to be
trapped in sin. Many are trapped with the sin of
masturbation. They wanna come out of it but
they keep going back to it. It is addictive. It
takes only the power of Christ to break the yoke
of sin. Your determination and self-will will
consistently fail you. The Bible says, “Thou hast
forsaken me, saith the LORD, thou art gone
backward: therefore will I stretch out my hand
against thee, and destroy thee; I am weary with
repenting.” (Jeremiah 15:6 KJV)
Masturbation brings about self-shame. It is a
shameful act. One that you cannot proudly
discuss with anyone. The worst of shame is self-
shame. Though unknown to others, it fills your
entire being and you constantly feel shameful
and dirty. Such shame destroys your self-
esteem. The Bible says, What fruit had ye then in
those things whereof ye are now ashamed? for
the end of those things is death. (Romans 6:21
KJV)
If you are into ministry, masturbation will render
you powerless. You won’t be able to help people
with unclean spirits because the devil cannot
cast out the devil. There is even the danger of
being overcome by demons when you attempt to
cast them out. Masturbation, therefore, lives you
exposed and vulnerable in ministry. When you
preach righteousness or holiness, satan, will
remind you of your own secret sinful habit. Do
not allow evil spirits to ask you this question,
“And the evil spirit answered and said, Jesus I
know, and Paul I know; but who are ye?” (Acts
19:15 KJV)
The person who masturbates lives a secret life.
You keep watching your back when no one is
after you. You keep looking for a private moment
and a secluded space for you to perform the
habit. You are constantly on the watch when you
should be at peace. You have to buy some of the
materials you use in masturbating discreetly
because no one must know about it. You are
living a double life. The Bible say, “The wicked
flee when no man pursueth: but the righteous
are bold as a lion.” (Proverbs 28:1 KJV)
Lastly, just like any other sin, masturbation is a
sin and God’s eyes are too holy to behold
iniquity. You risk the wrath of God. You also risk
going to hell fire. The worst of it all, you risk
kicking God out of your life. The Bible says,
“Behold, the LORD'S hand is not shortened, that
it cannot save; neither his ear heavy, that it
cannot hear: But your iniquities have separated
between you and your God, and your sins have
hid his face from you, that he will not
hear.” (Isaiah 59:1-2 KJV)
You may have struggled with it for years but it
can end today by the power in the name of
Jesus Christ. Repent and accept Jesus Christ as
your Lord and Saviour and ask Him for the grace
to walk in purity. You can contact your Bible,A Good Holiness Pastor or me for further
counselling. God bless you.
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{OKONKWO JOYCE NORAH}
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Thursday, August 17, 2017

PARENTS HAVE GONE WILD: BLEACHING CHILDREN'S SKIN

Parents Gone Wild: Bleaching Children's Skin:
by Oluseye Igbafe
I heard about this for the first time a year ago at the birthday party of a friend's child. One of our mutual friends walked up to me and after pleasantries, said to me:
“Sis, your daughter is very pretty oh.”
“Thanks”, I replied.
"What cream do you use for her?” She asked
"Cream?! I use Johnson Baby lotion."
"Only?! What do you use to bring out her colour?” she persisted.
“I don’t really understand you,” I answered her, “What colour am I bringing out?”
"No oh, you should use something that will bring out her colour. Don’t you know she will be prettier (sic) if she has fair skin?”
I cringed inwardly. All the while, I had struggled to believe she couldn’t possibly be saying what I thought she was saying.
“You mean I should start bleaching her skin? At what age and why would I do such a crazy thing?! It’s not necessary my dear,” I answered her firmly.
"It is oh my big sister. Especially for a girl but not bleaching; haba, not even toning! It’s just to bring out her colour oh and it’s not a sin," she said. "Even you should bring out your colour more,” she added.
I swallowed my raging retorts and simply said, “I hope you don’t do that for your son? He is way too small to have anything being rubbed on him. I beg of you."
*Well, since he is naturally fair-skinned, I am just maintaining it, I have been mixing his cream with Movate since he was born,” she replied
I was unable to dissuade her before we got interrupted and I eventually forgot about the conversation. Till about 2 weeks ago.
I walked into a supermarket and saw a heavily bleached woman with three beautiful girls who were looking “toned”. Their faces were conspicuously lighter than the rest of their body and their knees and knuckles were quite dark. Their ages ranged from age 10 to possibly 5.
I then decided to research the concept of parents bleaching their kids and what I found out is that there is indeed a craze for fair-skinned children; and many parents are turning their dark skinned children to fair-skinned. They claim they are helping their kids maintain their “natural skin colour”.
A lady told me it’s not bleaching or toning if it’s done with natural products. She uses Shea butter, Turmeric, Lime/Lemon, Camphor etc. to prepare “natural” soap for her daughter. Another lady recommends mixing their creams with hydrocortisone or clomatrizole creams for a “clear” smooth skin. I was simply shocked.
First, I think this generation has totally gone bunkers with vanity. No, this isn’t vanity, its shallowness of the highest order. I wrote a post last year on Sexualization of Children and though it went viral, I can assure you we are getting worse.
Why does your child need to be fair to be beautiful? What is the correlation? Where did that concept come from? What happened to Black is Beautiful? I believe every child is beautiful and even then the very beautiful ones are not just beautiful because of their skin tone but their facial structure and features.
Secondly, it’s way too early to start enhancing your child’s features to promote beauty. Children should have no vanity issues. Again I say, allow them to be children and do not give them self-esteem issues by acting as though they are not beautiful enough. Tell your children, they are beautiful irrespective of their skin colour or tone. If you as a parent can’t accept them for who they are or what skin tone they have, how do you expect them to grow into confident women who value themselves?
Lastly, do you have any idea the possible side-effects these creams will have on their skin? Rubbing chemicals on their skin for years could possibly be setting them up for skin cancer. I mean, a lot of those creams contain Mercury and hydrocortisone which have been linked to cancer even in adults.
And please do not hide behind, “I only use natural stuff so it’s harmless”. Are those things meant to be rubbed into the skin? Is Turmeric meant to be rubbed into the skin every day? Lime and lemons are acidic and will definitely have their own effect. Camphor?
I know Shea butter is good but your motive should be just to Oil or moisturize their skin to prevent it from dryness. If there is a vanity aim to your “natural method” then you are part of the problem.
Leave your child’s skin alone. Don’t set him or her up for future problems due to your own narrow view of beauty. Personally, I believe parents who bleach or tone their child’s skin should be arrested and prosecuted. It is the height of irresponsibility.
Let’s allow children to be children. Let them know whether they black, brown, yellow or white, they are all beautiful.

SEXUALIZATION OF CHILDREN

As I waited in the departure lounge of a local airport, I noticed there were many children about but it was understandable since it was summer holiday. One other thing I noticed was the way most of the children were dressed. Most of them, especially the girls, were dressed in bum shorts, halter necks, cut off jeans, etc. The clothes in themselves weren't the issue per se; it was the overall look of the children that had me bothered. That was definitely not the first time I noticed it. 
 
A few months before, I had taken my kids to a birthday party and found myself in what could easily have been a night club for kids. Scanty clothing such as tight or very short clothes, bum shorts, long weaves, etc, seemed to be the dress code. I noticed my daughter glancing around her, probably wondering, "What in God's world are these other children wearing?" Or something like that.
Not long after, the kids were called out to dance to the hit songs of the season - these songs in my opinion should be rated PG 13. 4-6 year olds trooped to the dance floor, miming the sexually explicit songs and gyrating their bodies in the most sensual manner. They could have given Beyounce a run for her money. 

 
They ran their hands over their bodies, shook their booties hard while their parents cheered them on. The boys had their upper shirts unbuttoned and rapped along perfectly to gangsta raps while doing flawless break dance. 


Those who danced like actual children where shooed off the dance floor while the lewd ones were cheered on. As I watched, my child stared out of this circle looking longingly at the others dancing. I knew it was time to leave. As we left, we went to a eatery where I bought them ice cream and gently explained to them the concept of decency and dancing with decorum. 

Another time, at a game arcade for kids, I ran into a lady who had made-up her kids' faces like they were mannequins for Tara or Mac beauty products. Their skirts were so tight, that running up and down the slide was uncomfortable for them. 
 
So the question is, why are we sexualizing our kids? Why does your 4, 6 or 9 year old girl have to look like a chick? Why does she have to be hot or sexy? Should your 8 year old son go around with a comb in his hair and his pants sagged almost to his ankles? 

Some parents even dress their children like this to church. Church! 
What are you teaching the child? What happened to children wearing dresses to church? Children can look very nice and decent, they can be well covered and still look good. In this age, when children are being abused, is it wise to make your child an object of anyone's sexual attention? 

When I hear some children belt out sexually explicit lyrics, I ask myself how they became exposed to this songs! As a parent, you can't play the CD of such songs and not expect your children to pick them up; the same goes for watching Mtv Base, Channel O, etc with your children. 
 
Studies have shown that children exposed to a high level of sexually explicit information tend to become sexually active early. Is that your goal as a parent?
If your child wears bum shorts out of the house at age 3, why should she be expected to wear longer ones at 15? If she wears 2 rings and 12 bangles at 6, why won't she pierce a second ear hole at 17 and her bellybutton at 19? 
 
Why won't your son pierce his own ear at 15? Are you setting your children up to be immodest and indecent? What trend are you starting them on? That all these are fashionable or trendy doesn't mean it's ok. 
Being a Parent involves sacrifice. You will need to avoid listening to such music where your children are.
 
Most of those lyrics demean women and teach your daughter that she's just a sex toy and her body is for squeezing. It teaches the boys that money is everything and women are things to be used to satisfy their primal urges. These music introduces them to a degrading pop culture.

Our children have their lives ahead of them, let's set them on the right path by teaching them to dress decently and sing nice or age-appropriate songs. Let your children be children. Train up a child in the way that s/he should go and when s/he is old, s/he would not depart from it.

FOR THOSE ASKING IS WOMEN WEARING TROUSERS TO CHURCH A SIN?

FOR THOSE ASKING IS WOMEN WEARING TROUSER TO THE CHURCH A SIN?:
Wearing it at all whether in the Church or any other place; what do YOU BELIEVE IT DOES? Helps men and women to see YOU and GLORIFY GOD YOUR FATHER who is EVERYWHERE and YOU REPRESENT HIM EVERYWHERE? or it makes men and women to REMEMBER SIN OF LUST, FORNICATION, ADULTERY, MASTURBATION, LESBIANISM, HOMOSEXUALITY, PORNOGRAPHY, INCEST, BESTIALITY e.t.c? or it makes people to be TEMPTED to ASSUME you are LOOSE? Anywhere you put on such attire even all those tight skirts and gowns, sleeveless and transparent clothes that exhibit the contour of your waste and breast as well as women under-wears, the 1st place a man/woman who is looking at you from your front-view putting on trouser is "the vagina" or "your buttocks" from the back-view e.t.c does it make you glorify GOD your FATHER? A GENUINE CHRISTIAN dress in such a manner to help other human being to REPENT from their SIN and ACCEPT/BELIEVE in JESUS CHRIST not someone who LEADS OTHERS INTO SIN!!!
Are you not worried that what you wear as clothes is leading human beings to commit fornication/adultery in their minds with you even some people snap your pictures and record your immoral videos for masturbation in the privacy of their homes? JESUS SAID THAT "ANY MAN/WOMAN who causes other people to commit sin and go to hell-fire will be CAST INTO HELL-FIRE ALSO {"Matthew 13:41-42 "The Son of Man will send out his angels, and they will weed out of his kingdom everything that causes sin and all who do evil. They will throw them into the blazing furnace, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth."}.
May the Holy Spirit help you to REPENT and receive the BLOOD OF JESUS CHRIST to cleanse your soul and all those who have committed sin with your pictures/images/videos/dressing e.t.c in JESUS MIGHTY NAME. AMEN.

Thursday, August 10, 2017

LOVE IS A CHOICE

Love is A CHOICE, it is a DECISION. Love is NOT EMOTION.EMOTION is a chemical reaction in the brain that ONLY last for 5 seconds because of what you feel about peoples achievements, body-shape/size, 6-packs, fashion make-ups, read, hear, watch, think, imagine e.t.c about another person. They do not last, cannot sustain a relationship not to talk of building a SOUND MARRIAGE. You can have the same EMOTION for different people at different times in your life and location but because of your CHOICE to "CARE" for that ONE PERSON you do not get MOVED by all those chemical reactions with regards to other human being you encounter on your daily routine in LIFE. 
All those scripts they write and act in Movies have paralysed the thinking and MATURITY of those currently in marriage who are planning to quit on their marriage or go for divorce as well as those who claim that they are ready for marriage but they have not FOUND TRUE LOVE. 
Even those who claim to be "DIVORCED"or "FOUND TRUE LOVE OUTSIDE THEIR LEGITIMATE SPOUSE" at this point check it; you ALLOWED COMMUNICATION GAP or MISUNDERSTANDING to move you into the CHOICE of not "CARING FOR YOUR SPOUSE AGAIN".
Take it or leave it if you make A CHOICE TO CARE FOR HIM/HER RIGHT NOW you both will fix back your marriage and even BLOSSOM into something BETTER than your 1st relationship.
The REAL PROBLEM is that either ONE of the SPOUSE or BOTH of the SPOUSE have "LOCKED-UP" that space in their lives WHERE they made the CHOICE/DECISION TO CARE FOR EACH OTHER, once you keep this space 'locked' NO BEING in the heavens, on the earth under the world can settle your DIFFERENCES!
if each or both spouse UNLOCK THIS SPACE, you do not NEED external bodies to settle your differences!
Most problem between spouse or intending spouse or human relationships is not lack of emotional love but 'LACK OF KNOWLEDGE' on how to manage each other.
You can have the HOLY SPIRIT but you do not have KNOWLEDGE.
You have the HOLY SPIRIT by believing in JESUS CHRIST.
You acquire KNOWLEDGE by STUDYING continuously.
The HOLY SPIRIT is GOD but to illustrate this difference let us 'assume' the Holy Spirit is "A TOOL BOX" then KNOWLEDGE is "HOW TO USE THE TOOL BOX" thus your car can spoil on the ROAD and in your car there is A TOOL BOX but you can spend 7-days on that Road beside your car with that tool box however if you have the knowledge on how to use that TOOL BOX; you will fix that car in less than 5 minutes and continue your journey. Most marriages today between Holy Spirit filled partners which have broken today would have been heading to 50-70-80 years wedding anniversary if they had KNOWLEDGE on how to use the 'TOOL BOX--HOLY SPIRIT' to manage each other.
If you are already in marriage GET KNOWLEDGE
If you are about to enter into marriage GET KNOWLEDGE
If you are A CELIBATE GET KNOWLEDGE
You will never ACQUIRE ENOUGH OF KNOWLEDGE on this AREA OF LIFE or ANY OTHER AREA OF LIFE till YOU DIE.
TRUE LOVE is not waiting for you ANYWHERE, wake up from your dream. People of the opposite sex cluster around you from morning till night, can you not see someone whose face is LIKABLE to YOU? 
Use wisdom and approach him/her, Indirectly make research whether he/she is READY for MARRIAGE IN HIS/HER WHOLE LIFE? 
Do you have a common understanding about MARRIAGE? 
Is he/she thinking about MARRIAGE within your own time-frame to settle down? 
What is he/she looking out for in a prospective wife/husband? 
Do you think you can fit into that FEATURES? 
What is the position of religious BELIEVE between both of you? 
all these while you have been making research from your own point of view NOW!
AT THIS LEVEL BE CLEAR AND BLUNT; 
Does he/she see YOU as someone who he/she can call 'HIS WIFE' or 'HER HUSBAND' even without PROPOSING (All those waiting for proposal have made some people stay too long to miss out other intending suitors and have scared so many men AWAY). 
So many people have won "PROPOSING RING FOR LIFE-TIME" while so many ladies do not make-up their mind early to prepare for marriage until they start getting old then they will want to throw themselves to any person that comes around. 
So many have backgrounds where there parents were at war on daily bases hence they perceive marriage as EVIL. My advise for people of this category is DO NOT ALLOW YOUR BACKGROUND to hold your back on the ground, grow up and MAKE A CHOICE OF COMMITMENT TOWARDS PEOPLE IN GENERAL; it does not hurt to CARE because you are not expecting anything in return at the initial intention rather to SERVE HUMANITY with your UNIQUE BEING then THE GOD OF SOWING AND REAPING {Galatians 6:7} will bring in the opposite UNIQUE PERSON however you must be APT to recognize him/her {Of-course, you must have a "VIVID WRITTEN DOWN DESCRIPTION" OF WHO YOU WANT both academic status, Social Status, Economic Status, Spiritual Level, Physical Status e.t.c. If you do not WRITE IT DOWN, how can you recognize  him/her when you MEET? }. 
The Love defined for REAL MARRIAGE is a DELIBERATE DECISION, CHOICE and COMMITMENT to CARE (search for what another person needs in life without asking him/her directly and provide it for the person before the person request for it) for another person till death without expecting anything in RETURN thus "But God demonstrates his own love for us in this: While we were still sinners, Christ died for us" (Romans 5:8) Man needs forgiveness so God went and brought it then gave it to man before man sinned, it was already provided thus JESUS is the LAMB that was SLAIN before the FOUNDATION OF THE WORLD (Revelation 13:8)
Hence you MUST be the "NEED" of that man or woman and not his/her want.
A NEED can only be MATE by ONE thing/PERSON but wants can be gotten from multiple locations and persons!!!

Wednesday, August 2, 2017

ONLY BELIEVE

THEY SAID WE ARE JUST CARRYING HOLY BIBLE EVERYWHERE, PREACHING INSIDE KEKE, BUS, SCHOOL, STREETS, HOUSES E.T.C for NOTHING...
My Big Brother in the Lord in My Charismatic Community who has been waiting on the Lord for A CHILD AFTER 14 LONG YEARS
JUST RECEIVED
A SET OF TWINS {TWO BOYS}....
Some PEOPLE think they can make mockery of OUR FAITH IN JESUS CHRIST....
I received UNMERITED FINANCIAL CASH I NEVER EXPECTED in this past month of JULY, 2017.
my MASTER AND LORD JESUS CHRIST said
"THERE IS MORE"
...'ONLY BELIEVE'...
DO NOT BE AFRAID {Mk.5:36}.
HOLINESS IN CHRIST JESUS PAYS ON THIS EARTH
and also GIVES CERTAINTY OF HEAVEN any time any day.
All I want YOU that is facing a crises in your marriage now, struggle with sinful thoughts/habits/behaviors,
financial, health, job, business, accommodation challenge e.t.c in your LIFE RIGHT NOW
is to use your IMAGINATION and move to Calvary
then say what the Woman with the Issue of Blood for 12 years {how many years you have lived with that problem DOES NOT MATTER} SAID "IF ONLY I CAN TOUCH THE HELM OF HIS GARMENTS, I WILL BE MADE WHOLE ...SHE WENT AND TOUCHED HIS GARMENT FROM BEHIND...."IMMEDIATELY" HER HEMORRHAGE STOPPED AND SHE FELT IN HER BODY THAT SHE WAS HEALED OF HER DISEASE" (Mk.5:28-30)
Make Sure you touched the PIERCED HEART OF JESUS CHRIST WITH YOUR HANDS
and
GO ABOUT YOUR ACTIVITIES BELIEVING IT SI DONE {"IT IS FINISHED/ESTABLISHED" Jn.19:30}
HOLY GHOST TAKE OVER!!!

ATTIRE