CRITICISMS AND COMPLIMENTS are very NECESSARY in our posts and lifestyle, they are called FEEDBACK (People’s DIRECT/FACE-TO-FACE REACTION to what you said or did). Criticisms should be “constructive” but in this “world” all of them will “never” be constructive, some will be “destructive” however your ability to BELIEVE that in “EVERY criticism and compliment” there is SOMETHING TO LEARN {This is called ASSERTIVE RESPONSE to criticism and compliments} thus do not ALLOW compliments to get into YOUR HEAD and do not ALLOW criticisms to get to YOUR HEART.
Whether you are married or in any relationship, do not INVITE A THIRD {3RD} PARTY to settle A PROBLEM between YOU until YOU HAVE SPOKEN with the person FACE TO FACE and also made EVERY POSSIBLE effort to solve THE PROBLEMS YOURSELVES.
NO MATTER WHO THE 3RD PARTY MIGHT BE {PARENTS/FRIEND/CLERGY e.t.c}
If you have tried resolving the PROBLEM and it does not seem to be settled look out for the PERSON he/she listens to then explain THE COMPLETE TRUTH to him/her so that he/she can apply the BEST SINCERE APPROACH in settling the problem.
THERE IS NOBODY ON THIS EARTH who does not have somebody{Human Being} he/she accepts corrections from, some people like to listen to the FINANCIALLY RICH, Some listen to People who have “BIG TITLE”, Some listen to “Learned Fellows”, Some listen to “Political Wigs”, Some listen to “People with Same Believe and Doctrine”, Some listen to “Age-Mates”, Some listen to “Opposite sex” e.t.c.
If you have done your face to face confrontation with the person involved then make adequate research to get the MOST SUITABLE 3RD PARTY to solve the PROBLEM.
Whether you are married or in any relationship, do not INVITE A THIRD {3RD} PARTY to settle A PROBLEM between YOU until YOU HAVE SPOKEN with the person FACE TO FACE and also made EVERY POSSIBLE effort to solve THE PROBLEMS YOURSELVES.
NO MATTER WHO THE 3RD PARTY MIGHT BE {PARENTS/FRIEND/CLERGY e.t.c}
If you have tried resolving the PROBLEM and it does not seem to be settled look out for the PERSON he/she listens to then explain THE COMPLETE TRUTH to him/her so that he/she can apply the BEST SINCERE APPROACH in settling the problem.
THERE IS NOBODY ON THIS EARTH who does not have somebody{Human Being} he/she accepts corrections from, some people like to listen to the FINANCIALLY RICH, Some listen to People who have “BIG TITLE”, Some listen to “Learned Fellows”, Some listen to “Political Wigs”, Some listen to “People with Same Believe and Doctrine”, Some listen to “Age-Mates”, Some listen to “Opposite sex” e.t.c.
If you have done your face to face confrontation with the person involved then make adequate research to get the MOST SUITABLE 3RD PARTY to solve the PROBLEM.
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