SEXUALITY:

Sexuality can be termed the compelling force in man to understand the mystery of being brought to existence, the force behind his creation and why he/she is compelled to follow a particular pattern of lifestyle different from the opposite sex, also trying to understand the force of attraction/repulsion/admiration towards other human being {same/opposite sex} and every other created thing around him/her. It is also by this feeling that man tries to ascertain the uniqueness of every human being created on earth and the way he/she responds to events/happenings as well as the approach to lower animals and non-living things that are used to improve the standard of living by means of symbiosis. When this knowledge is sort, man is often fed with what is obtainable within his/her domicile of birth as well as parental guidance and care. Many wish the origin of man is evolutionistic (just came into existence from the earth after many years of molecular compactmentation thus ‘Nature’ is the source of man’s existence) while others believe man is a descent of an Invisible Being whose complete nature is visible in a man and woman, these two came together in the act of mating and produced human beings like themselves {‘the man had intercourse with his wife Eve and she conceived and gave birth to Cain. I have acquired a man with the help of God, she said’ Gen.4:1} who is called God by Christians and some other religion but a different name referring to the same Being for some other religious group. The evolutionist from the day they propounded their theory are yet to give evidence to the world of a man/woman coming into existence from the earth even they themselves were brought to the earth through intercourse between their Father and Mother. In the evolutionary/scientific world there is this slogan “Nothing goes into motion unless being acted upon by another force” hence the force behind man’s evolution cannot be earth since man is categorically different from mere dust of the earth rather the progeny of man came from the Invisible but closest Being (God), every atom of any molecule contains the complete characteristics of that molecule hence man as an atom of God contains the complete characteristics of God that makes him/her adjust to situations and environment where necessary as well as change events/happenings/situations where it is deemed fit which is not feasible with mere dust of the earth {sand}.

The force that designs one human anatomy different and unique from others whether the same/opposite sex is God; the Creator of man/woman and he also inserts into every person the quest for completeness since either of man’s sex represents the complete image of God rather the both sex (“God created man in the image of himself, in the image of God he created him, male and female he created them” Gen.1:27) hence man continues to search for the Infinite, complete satisfaction, complete peace, complete joy from what he sees around his/her environment {other human being, lower animals and non-living things}. The power/force of compulsion to dress/sit/talk/act in a different way from the opposite/same sex is also inserted into man right from creation though at birth is usually influenced by parents and environment but with maturation, the child gets to ask questions, make observations and adjust where and when necessary according to the exposure and disposition towards the inner voice [the Spirit of God and the conscience]. As a child grows to understand what he/she can do for his/her self and the environment within his/her God given strength and talent and what others can help him/her achieve, there is an upsurge in the force of attraction and admiration for other human beings [same/opposite sex] and when exposed to the vicious cycle of human beings and the acquisitions of life, the force of repulsion in him/her comes to strike a balance to the initial force however, man continues to attract and get attracted to other human beings (mother/father/sister/brother/relations/friends/strangers e.t.c) as well as acquisitions of life {houses/cars/fashion/money e.t.c} since in him/her is planted the desire for infinite (God) and a desire to understand the force behind his creation, actions, behaviors, thoughts, line of reasoning, acquisitions as well as his final destiny.

The sex of each human being is determined by the person’s physique/appearance; from the hair on the head to the toes even a sight from afar can provide such information hence the dressing/picture-image of any  human being makes him/her attractive/admirable/repulsive even before actual encounters via chats/speech/behaviors/cleanliness/spirituality e.t.c. These entire quest by man with regards to attraction and repulsion towards other human beings and acquisitions of life are mainly geared towards a complete and perfect understanding of man (man and woman) which will bring about the comprehensive understanding about God whose complete nature is visible in a man and woman. This is therefore the driving force that attracts a man to a man, man to a woman, woman to woman, man to lower animals, man to non-living things because they need each other to come to terms with the Single, Unique and Whole entity [GOD] whose image they represent but this force does not complete its cycle in penetration of sexual organs, fingering, visualization of the other’s nakedness, projection of one’s nakedness to another or to the public (fitted/tight, transparent, sex-provocative clothes) rather penetration of sexual organs is the last phase in delving into the mystery of Love {“…God is love” 1 Jn.4:8} between a man and a woman joined together by God through the ministry of a priest and the testimony of God’s people in a bid to understand themselves more hence there is no need for guilt, anxiety, tension, frustration, rejection, fear at the beginning or end of this process lest the aim in view will be destroyed and the journey towards old age will be filled with emptiness, bitterness, loneliness e.t.c drawn from the fear of what the effects of the misdemeanors (‘you showed them that you are a God who forgives, even though you punished them for their sins’ Ps.99:8) of early age will bring to him/her after death {“Don’t delude yourself: God is not to be fooled; whatever someone sows, that is what he will reap” Gal.6:7} and the upcoming generations [‘no one born out of wedlock or any descendant of such a person, even in the tenth generation, may be included among the Lord’s people’ Deut.23:2]. This force is generally referred to as force of attraction/repulsion inserted into man by God (Gen.1:28) and the understanding of how it affects a particular, same and opposite sex in their relationships (emotional, physical, psychological, spiritual e.t.c) to every other human being in the world is called sexuality.