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Saturday, June 9, 2012

WHY ARE YOU ANGRY?


WHY ARE YOU ANGRY? (Gen.4:6)

“The Lord God asked Cain, why are you angry and downcast? If you are doing right, surely you ought to hold your head high! But if you are not doing right, Sin is crouching at the door hungry to get you. You can still master him. Cain said to his brother Abel, let us go out and while they were in the open country, Cain set on his brother Abel and killed him” (Gen.4:6-8).

This question is no longer directed to Cain today but you and I since Cain has gone to the world beyond long time ago. I now put this question to you and I because the Word is not all about ‘tell them slogan’ but it is a double edge sword (Heb.4:12) of the Spirit of God which encourages those who are walking in the right path to keep on the good fight of faith as they guard against the yeast of the Pharisees, admonishing those who are lukewarm to rise up thus ‘since by your obedience to the truth you have purified yourselves so that you can experience the genuine love of brothers, love each other intensely from the heart; for your new birth was not from any perishable seed but from imperishable seed, the living and enduring Word of God. For all its humanity is grass and all its beauty like the wild flowers. As grass withers, the flower fades but the Word of the Lord remains forever and this Word is the Good News that has been brought to you (1 Pet.1:22-25), marks us as God’s own (‘but now in Christ Jesus, you that used to be so far off have been brought close by the Blood of Christ’ Eph.1:13), regenerates us as we respond to the directives of the Holy Spirit (“so for anyone who is in Christ, there is a new creation: the old order is gone and a new being is there to see”2 Cor.5:17) and the Gospel (‘Jesus answered: In all truth I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God without being born through water and the Spirit’ Jn.3:5), strengthens us as we seek to please God (“In the abundance of his glory may he, through his Spirit enable you to grow firm in power with regard to your inner self” Eph 3:16), convicts our hearts of sin (‘and when he comes, he will show the world how wrong it was about sin and about who was in the right and about judgment’ Jn.16:8) and guarantees our inheritance of the things above (“who is the pledge of our inheritance for the freedom of the people whom God has taken for his own for the praise of his glory” Eph. 1:14).

Hence why do you get irritated when your neighbor’s children progresses before your own children? Yet you stumble over this passage often ‘but when the completion of the time came, God sent his Son, born of a woman, born a subject of the law, to redeem the subjects of the law so that we could receive adoption as sons’ {Gal.4:4-5} and we often allow this bad feeling to lead into hateful feelings that places egocentrism over righteousness thus we begin to look for ways of destroying lives and properties via poisoning, betrayal of any sort, unleashing hired assassins and kidnappers, burning people’s homes e.t.c while attributing them to devils handwork or even attempt the other extreme where friends, parents, siblings, life-partners, relations ignite the passions of evil in us by luring our generation into prostitution with dubious students, lecturers, managers or heads of administrations in order to get admissions, pass semester examinations, get promotion in offices, sale our products in the market, bring people to your fellowships, meet up with the social status of our new environment, win a political position, get marriage partners e.t.c with idolatrous statements like “use what your mother gave you to get what you want”, ‘if you can beat them, you join them’, “Do not allow people to notice your righteousness any other place apart from the church lest you will not make it to the top”, ‘when you get to Rome behave like the Romans’ e.t.c.

Forgetting that you may end up getting all these things as you planned but like the rich fool, you may not live to partake in its spoil because the hour, day and time when death (Lk.12:40) will come knocking at your door, you do not know hence exchanging our heavenly birthright (Phil.3:20) for the fire that burns with sulphur and brimstone (Rev.21:8) for a position, fashion, wealth, fame e.t.c that will be used by others with a curse attached to it (Ex.20:5) for the children that follow the evil paths of their parents (Ezek.33:14-16).
Why are you annoyed with the person who told you to stop lying with your phone because your caller was made to believe you are in Enugu while you are in Lagos remember all sort of liars are heading for the lake that burns with sulphur and brimstone; the second death (Rev.21:8) including those who impersonate for people during Examinations as well as copying from other people works or carrying written materials into the hall, those secretaries who pick up the phone under duress to inform their clients of the managers purported absence from the country while he is directly beside the phone table, men and women who turn their children, maids or houseboy’s into a canker of deceit whereby they tell-off their debtors, people who forge certificates to get admissions, jobs, promotions, contracts e.t.c , people who give bribe as well as take in order to transfer another’s opportunity to undeserving people who lie to would-be spouse about their fertility condition in collaboration with laboratory attendants, nurses and doctors for a certain amount of money, medical practitioners who decide to take the place of God by exchanging male and female children between mothers who have complimenting preference in the sex of their new born child which ends up raping his seeming sisters and mother as well as killing the seeming father and vice versa.

Why are you annoyed with the person who tells you to cover your breast, laps and buttocks?
some prying eyes and the weak in spirit may be fornicating with you in their hearts (Mtt.5:27-28) in your bid to look trendy, sexy, cute and smart in the realm of worldly fashion including your houseboy/brother-in-law/visitors/husband friends/male friends e.t.c who goes somewhere squeezing his penis with soap and water while calling your name hence accusing you before God in line with Rev.12:10 “…the accuser, who accuses our brethren day and night before our God…” and your maid(s)/daughter(s)/sister(s)/sister(s)-in-law/holiday-relations whose decent clothes you burnt and replaced with promiscuous attires hence luring your undisciplined husband and other male contemporaries in between her thighs while you sit back in your house blaming everybody and everything except yourself for the problems in your family because you parade the whole house/lodge on boxers, transparent night-gowns, trousers, V-neck & tight tops, bomb shots, mini & tight skirts e.t.c forgetting that these human parts are the first to be swallowed by maggots and ants (Isaiah 14:11) once death strikes, righteousness exalts a nation while sin is a reproach to the people  (Prov.14:34)and “do not delude yourself: God is not to be fooled; whatever someone sows that is what he will reap (Gal.6:7). What an unfair treatment on our spirit which stands to be punished by the sins committed by the flesh at the judgment (1 Cor.15:50) but when the spirit of man controls the undertakings of man; some part of the flesh or the whole body does not inherit incorruptibility just like Christ at the Resurrection (Mtt.28:1-8), Elisha’s body prophesied at death (Sirach 48:13) and a dead man whose corpse touched Elisha’s bones came to life (2 Kgs.13:20-21), Our Mother (Rev.12:17); the Blessed Virgin Mary was taken up into heaven soul and body in fulfillment of Psalm 16:10 (for you will not abandon me to sheol, you cannot allow your faithful servant to see the abyss), the tongue of St. Anthony of Padua is still fresh as at the day he died till today, the corpse of St. Bernadette is still lying in state as at the day of his burial till today and other saints as well as holy men and women who have died yet still communicate with us because “when Christ is in you, the body is dead because of sin but the spirit is alive because you have been justified” {Rom.8:10} which is rephrased in latin as ‘vita mutamor non tollitur [life is transformed not destroyed]’ for those who believe.



Why is your spirit downcast because you did not graduate with your contemporaries?
Those who graduated have not gone for service, those who went for service; on their way to the camp lost their lives, those who are serving in some rural/urban areas are not finding it funny, those who are in the private companies the so much acclaimed oil companies are wishing for a transfer, break or reduction in the load of work. The flesh seeks to satisfy the satiety of man i.e the yearning of a man’s soul for God (‘As a deer yearns for running streams, so I yearn for you, my God’ Ps.42:1) with things that are visible like
 wine (eating and drinking) while Paul stated “for it is not eating and drinking that make the kingdom of God, but saving justice peace and joy brought by the Holy Spirit” [Rom.14:17],
 Women (marriage and lustful passions) ‘…there are eunuchs who have made themselves so for the sake of the kingdom of Heaven. Let anyone accept this who can’ (Mtt.19:12) thus “for when they rise from the dead, men and women do not marry; no they are like the angels in heaven” (Mk.12:25),
Wealth (inordinate desire for money and property) ‘in reply Balaam said to Balak’s envoys, even if Balak gave me his house full of silver and gold, I could not go against the order of the Lord my God in anything, great or small’ {Num.21:18} because “the Lord gives death and life, brings down to sheol and draws up; the Lord makes poor and rich, he humbles and also exalts” (1 Sam.2:6-7) and
Ritual Evangelist (Surface-coated piety) ‘this people honor me only with lip-service while their hearts are far from me. Their reverence of me is worthless: the lessons they teach are nothing but human commandments’ [Mtt.15:8-9], “…I know about your behavior: how you are reputed to be alive and yet ye are dead” {Rev.3:1b} and ‘Jesus looked steadily at him and he was filled with love for him and he said, you need to do one thing more. Go and sell what you own and give the money to the poor and you will have treasure in heaven; then come follow me. But his face fell at these words and he went away sad, for he was a man of great wealth’ (Mk.10:21-22).
People under this terrain include all those who ordained themselves bishops (pastor, pastores latin derivation for shepherd/high priest) against this passage ‘no one takes this honor upon himself but is chosen as Aaron was’ (Heb.5:4) and preach loyalty to Christ while standing on the platform of disobedience to the head of the Church; Christ (Eph.5:23) who is represented by the bishop of Rome who has the apostolic succession of St. Peter (Mtt.16:18-19) hence the teachings of the church is guided by the continued presence of Christ in the Sacrifice of His Body and Blood which is re-enacted every day on the altar by genuine Catholic Priests (Lk.22:19-20) and the ever dynamic Power of Pentecost (Holy Spirit) which holds every member of the church united in believe that we have one Lord, one baptism, one faith  and one God and Father of all, over all, through all and within all (Eph.4:5-6) as He proceeds from the Father and the Son (“He will glorify me since all he reveals to you will be taken from what is mine. Everything the Father has is mine; that is why I said: all he reveals to you will be taken from what is mine” Jn.16:14-15) and this full power of the Trinity is renewed, revived, revered, re-affirmed and re-ascertained on the life of the Church by the imposition of the sign of the Trinity, faith in Christ’s death on the cross which brought us fulfillment (Jn.19:30), victory over the enemy; devil (1 Pet.5:8-9)  and continued persecution in the world (Jn.16:33) and passion for Genuine love(Jn.15:13) as is visible at the beginning and end of all the ritual prayers of the Church which is the only pathway a human being and all that he does as well as owns can be sanctified as well as brought into the domain of the Triune God hence “…baptise them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit” {Mtt.28:19}

DISPOSITION OF MAN TO THE HOLY SPIRIT AND EFFECTS:




Due to man’s disposition towards God with regards to the spiritual gifts and servile talents bestowed upon him at creation thus ‘before I formed you in the womb I knew you; before you came to birth I consecrated you; I appointed you as prophet to the nations’ (Jer.1:5), the Holy Spirit uses our attitude towards their development for a stronger union with Him and service to man to attend to us hence “make a tree sound and its fruit will be sound; make a tree rotten and its fruit will be rotten. For the tree can be told by its fruit” [Mtt.12:33]. The Spirit of God breathed into man at creation (‘The Lord God shaped man from the soil of the ground and blew the breath of life into his nostrils and man became a living being’ Gen.2:7) is always present in man from birth till death (“your eyes could see my embryo. In your book all my days were inscribed, every one that was fixed is there” Ps.139:16) but his effects and visibility in and around us within these years on earth depends on the level of disposition to use what is already deposited in us (imago Dei; image of God: Gen.1:27) i.e the complete qualities of the Father, Son and Spirit even at death life is not destroyed but transformed (Vita mutamor non tollitur; Rom.8:10) that is why the bones of great men and women (saints, martyrs, virgins, bishops, doctors and prophets) performed and still performs miracles after their death (“such was Elijah, who was enveloped in a whirlwind; and Elisha was filled with his spirit throughout his life no ruler could shake him, and no one could subdue him. No task was too hard for him and even in death his body prophesied. In his lifetime he performed wonders and in death his works were marvelous” Sirach 48:12-14). Our disposition to the Holy Spirit inside us brings out his effects thus

Latent (‘do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God who has marked you with his seal, ready for the day when we shall be set free’ Eph.4:30):
here due to mans inclination to sins of the flesh like idolatory (worship of false gods and spirits; Ex.20:1-6), false prophecy (Jer.14:14) and heretical teachings against the church of Christ {‘so with you, as you are eager to have spiritual powers, aim to be rich in those which build up the church/community’ 1 Cor.14:12}, defiling Sunday and other holy days dedicated for the worship of God [ buying and selling on such days (Neh.10:31-32), going to work except for the cases of emergency {‘…the Son of man is master of the Sabbath’ Lk.6:5}, refusing to worship God in His Holy Place (“…come, let us go up to the mountain of the Lord, to the house of the God of Jacob that he may teach us his ways so that we may walk in his paths. For the law will issue from Zion and the word of the Lord from Jerusalem” Isaiah 2:3) due to lack of knowledge (‘better one day in your courts than a thousand at my own devices, to stand on the threshold of God’s house than to live in the tents of the wicked’ Ps.84:10, Hosea 4:6)], disobedience to parents, elders, teachers, leaders e.t.c except on what does not please God (Heb.13:9) which reduces human life-span, murder (human assassination, character assassination, abortion by will; consent; or participation, use of contraceptives in any form at all both condom use, pills and artificial birth control methods), promiscuity in all forms (fornication, incest, adultery, masturbation, pornography, lesbianism, homosexuality, voyeurism [keeping, watching and admiring nude pictures and indecently dressed people], exhibitionism [dressing nude or half-nude by wearing clothes that expose underwear, sexual organs, make underwear visible to passers-by, abnormal projection of sexual organs e.t.c]), stealing in all manner both from public and private offices with pen, from business partners nicknamed ‘smartness’ (Gen.3:1), from parents by children via phone calls and text demanding money for things that do not exist, cheating in the examination halls, taking another person’s wife, husband, properties e.t.c directly or indirectly, maltreating houseboys/girls and servants, destroying peoples reputation via gossips, slander and backbiting even telling lies, nursing anger, leaving on false glory (pride) and unwillingness to voice out the truth even when all odds are against you. These are the sins that make the Spirit we received from creation, baptism, body and blood of Christ, confirmation, authentic matrimony and Holy Orders inactive (‘the unbelievers whose minds have been blinded by the god of this world, so that they cannot see shining the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of God’ 2 Cor.4:4)and are longing for explosion thus “may he enlighten the eyes of your mind so that you can see what hope his call holds for you, how rich is the glory of the heritage he offers among his holy people and how extraordinary great is the power that he has exercised for us believers; this accords with the strength of his power” {Eph.1:18-19}.

Seasonal (one time active the other inactive):
Here we have people who read, here and understand the word of God but keep to them when every other alternative apart from God has failed them in order to seek his presence and intervention in the present situation thus ‘when they found him on the other side, they said Rabbi, when did you come here? Jesus answered: in all truth I tell you, you are not looking for me not because you have seen the signs but because you had all the bread you wanted to eat’ (Jn.6:25-26) and when they have received God’s blessings, favors, deliverance, gifts e.t.c they return to their old lifestyle just like prostitutes who allows another man into her chambers while the other person is yet to vacate. People in this category can convert souls to God via proclaiming the word, performing miracles, healing the sick e.t.c but they do not believe as well as practice what they do hence the Holy Spirit is activated via fasting and prayers for a particular period after which the person returns to his/her old passions (Gal.5:19-21, 1 Pet.1:14). For people of this category Christ said “this people honor me only with lip-service, while their hearts are far from me” [Mtt.15:8]  and their judgment will be thus ‘It is not anyone who says to me, Lord, Lord who will enter the kingdom of Heaven but the person who does the will of my Father in heaven…’ (Mtt. 7:21-27). People here needs to worship God with all sincerity as the Christ admonished (“God is spirit and those who worship must worship in spirit and truth” Jn.4:24) by wearing the belt of righteousness and constancy on his/her waist (Isaiah 11:5) always since it is only those that persevere to the end that will be saved (Mtt.24:13). Here a person is often carried away by presumption that the Holy Spirit is still active even after committing a sin targed small by many as a result will still go ahead trying to perform deliverance, healing or miracle hence this backfires at times causing the death of the person or wiping away family members that are not actively united with the Spirit of righteousness due to the fact that ‘…no sinner will go unpunished’ {Sirach 7:8} and “…sin is a reproach to the people” (Prov.14:34). The only category of people that are may exist in this group are Catholic priests because they are another Christ (Aute Christus; Heb.9:28).

Unknown mode (“she cried, the philistines are on you, Samson! He awoke from sleep thinking, I shall break free as I have done time after time and shake myself clear. But he did not know that the Lord God had left him” Judges 16:20):
Here people mainly involved go by the slogan ‘it does not matter’ and “it is well” for almost every situation, event, engagement, dressing, behavior, speech, friendship e.t.c forgetting that it is only those who believe in the Son of God that will have all things working unto good (Rom.8:28) as well as having the power to become real children of God (Jn.1:12). People in this category easily forget that the full passage of the scripture is ‘tell the righteous, it shall be well with you’ (Isaiah 3:10) but they allow their flesh to control the spirit by way of avoiding any form of quiet atmosphere rather keeping busy (satan goes about keeping people busy in the wrong assignment like cultism, plans on how to loot the public and covert people properties to theirs, pornography, masturbation, anger, jealousy e.t.c) to maintain every possible trend in the world (the prince of this world has already been condemned as well as those who follow his trends Jn.16:11). The righteous are those who view sin as a mistake that must be corrected immediately thus ‘for though the righteous falls seven times, he gets up again; the wicked are the ones who stumble in adversity’ (Prov.24:16) and “do not be drawn to sin twice over, for you will not go unpunished even once” (Sirach 7:8). People within this category are usually from wealthy background  both physically and spiritually where everything is made available for them hence they tend to forget this “woe to you who have lost the strength to endure; what will you do at the Lord’s visitation?” (Sirach 2:14). The people in this category need our prayers and direction hence ‘the prayer of faith will save the sick person and the Lord will raise him up again and if he has committed any sins, he will be forgiven’ {James 5:15} and “act wisely with outsiders, making the best of the present time. Always talk pleasantly and with a flavor of wit but be sensitive to the kind of answer each one requires’ [Col.4:5-6].

Consistently alert (‘I shall stand guard before my home to defend it against all comers and no oppressor will overrun them ever again, for now I am on the alert’ Zech.9:8):
This is where forces of the flesh gives up totally on man since the wind of Heaven has taken over the man who goes wherever the Spirit directs (“the wind blows where it pleases; you can hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone who is born of the Spirit” Jn.3:8) even when you are aware that the result of such move will bring about scorn, persecution, death of the body for His glory (‘and now you see me on my way to Jerusalem in captivity to the Spirit; I have no idea what will happen to me there, except that the Holy Spirit in town after town has made it clear to me that imprisonment and persecution await me. But I do not place any value on my own life, provided that I complete the mission the Lord Jesus gave me--to bear witness to the good news of God’s grace’ Acts.20:24). Here man gives in totally to God (James 4:7-8), evil flees from him and the Godhead nature is manifested in all ramifications in a radical way thus
ASCETISM:
Withdrawing into the desert, monastery, religious life to spend the rest of ones life in communion (prayer and fasting) with God like St.Anthony of Egypt (35 years in the desert), St.Padre Pio (A monk inside the monastery at the same time present in different places performing different functions like Celebrating the Holy Mass, at the confessional, attending to the sick e.t.c) with these scriptural passage in mind “…do not press me to leave you and to stop going with you, for wherever you go I shall go, wherever you live I shall live. Your people will be my people and your God will be my God, wherever you die I shall die and there I shall be buried…” {Ruth 1:16-17}, ‘as a deer yearns for running streams, so I yearn for you my God. I thirst for God, the living God; when shall I go to see the face of God?’ (Ps.42:1-2), “God, you are my God, I pine for you; my heart thirsts for you, my body longs for you as a land parched, dreary and waterless. Thus I have gazed on you in the sanctuary, seeing your power and your glory” (Ps.63:1-2)
CHARITY:
Using ones material possessions, servile talents and spiritual gifts to help others feel the practical presence of God among us (Immanuel; Mtt.1:23) without any ulterior motive of being famous, financially buoyant e.t.c hence would not minding providing succor to those in need within the nuclear and extended families as well as non-family members without grudges (‘let your love for one another be genuine and from a pure heart’ 1 Pet.4:8). This type of life was seen in the life of Mother Theresa of Calcutta, St. Francis of Assisi e.t.c who showed love even to the poor, disabled and infected patients that were left by the road sides. This type of life is also likened to the lives of ministerial priesthood of the True Church of Christ (Mtt.16:18-19) and religious lives (Reverend sisters, monks, brothers and nuns)which is a Divine call (Heb.5:4, 8:3, Ex.28:1-4, 1 Sam.10:17) that makes a man or woman to take the vow of chaste celibacy; a gift from God to those who desire it for the sake of His kingdom (Mtt.19:12), poverty; willingness to give up on material acquisitions in order to serve both the low and mighty even when there seems no reason for that as it concerns the reactions and responses of those being served towards them but holding on to the words of Christ like ‘how blessed are the poor in spirit: the kingdom of heaven is theirs’ [Mtt.5:3], “they that keep their life here on earth will lose it  but they that give it up for my sake here on earth will gain it in the next world”  , ‘so if anyone declares himself for me in the presence of human beings, I will declare myself for him in the presence of my Father in Heaven’ (Mtt.10:32) and obedience; this involves taking corrections, adjusting to new directives and bearing wrongs patiently which is a way of submitting to God (the Spirit that blows where it pleases; Jn.3:8) through his vicar on earth (the bishop of Rome having a continuity link with St. Peter who was made the first representative of Christ; Mtt.16:18-19) as Christ did and was extolled above every other creature (Phil.2:6-11) because obedience is better than sacrifice while rebellion is a sin of sorcery and presumption a crime of idolatry (1 Sam.15:22-23).
DILIGENCE CUM THE FEAR OF GOD:
This phase involves serving people with diligence (see a man who is diligent in his business, he shall stand before kings _Proverbs) in any sphere of life like offices, schools, institutions, government ministries, homes, markets, church e.t.c with the fear of God as the backbone of ones decisions, behaviors and contributions thus ‘and whatever you say or do, let it be in the name of the Lord Jesus, in thanksgiving to God the Father through him’ (Col.3:17) and “whatever you eat  then or drink and whatever else you do, do it all for the glory of God” {1 Cor.10:31} as this will be a source of blessing for you and the people you encounter as well as the firm you serve (‘…for the sake of the name of the Lord your God, of the Holy One of Israel who has made you glorious. Foreigners will rebuild your walls and their kings will serve you…’ Isaiah 60:9-10) because “… but the people who know their God will stand firm and take action” [Dan.11:32]

Sunday, May 27, 2012

THE HOLY SPIRIT AS WE CELEBRATE THE BIRTHDAY OF THE CHURCH (PENTECOST; ACTS.2:1-41)



The Holy Spirit is the third person of the Holy Trinity (One God but three in personality; Father, Son and Spirit) as the scripture stated ‘Now the earth was a formless void, there was darkness over the deep, with a divine wind (the HOLY SPIRIT) sweeping over the waters’ {Gen.1:2} and “God said, Let there be light and there was light” [Gen.1:3]; Jesus Christ is the word of God made flesh (“Mary said, you see before you the Lord’s servant, let it happen to me as you have said…” Lk.1:38 and the word of God spoken by the angel {“Look! You are to conceive in your womb and bear a son and you must name him Jesus” Lk.1:31} became man that dwelt with us [‘Look the virgin is with child and will give birth to a son whom they will call Immanuel, a name which means God is with us’ Mtt.1:23]) hence Jesus said “do you not believe that I am in the Father and the Father is in me?...” (Jn.14:10) and ‘still, I am telling you the truth: it is for your own good that I am going, because unless I go the paraclete will not come to you…’ (Jn.16:7).

WHAT IS THE HOLY SPIRIT?
The Holy Spirit is a person just like Jesus and the Father hence “…I will send HIM to you” (Jn.16:7). God the Father made himself visible to our forefathers Adam and Eve “Then the Lord God gave the man this command, ‘you are free to eat of all the trees in the garden but of the tree of knowledge of good and evil you are not to eat; for the day you eat of that, you are doomed to die” (Gen.2:16-17),  ‘the man and his wife heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day and they hid from the Lord God among the trees of the garden’ {Gen.3:8}. He is present in our midst today through his word {‘in the beginning was the Word, the Word was with God and the Word was God’ Jn.1:1}, the body and blood of His Son Jesus Christ (‘Then he took bread and when he had given thanks, he broke it and gave it to them, saying this is my body given for you; do this in remembrance of me, He did the same with the cup after supper and said, this cup is the new covenant in my blood poured out for you’ Lk.22:19-20), our encounter with the Holy Spirit (“and when he comes, he will show the world how wrong it was about sin and about who was in the right and about judgment” Jn.16:8) even as he helps us to pray correctly because prayer is a spiritual event, act, behavior, reasoning, perception e.t.c which the weak human person does not know how to undertake properly unless the Spirit comes to our assistance thus ‘and as well as this, the Spirit too comes to help us in our weakness, for when we do not know how to pray properly, then the Spirit personally makes our petitions for us in groans that cannot be put into words; and ho who can see into all hearts knows what the Spirit means because the prayers that the Spirit makes for God’s holy people are always in accordance with the mind of God’ (Rom.8:26-27).

WHAT THE HOLY SPIRIT DOES
When the Holy Spirit comes into the heart of man; he is transferred to a higher union with God.
From paganism to a believer:
Here one encounters God (the real Word of God; Jn.1:1) for the first time in his life via friends, colleague, family relations, preachers e.t.c and is willing to give up the old passions of sin (1 Pet.1:14-16) for a better portion in the life of His Creator (Gen.1:27), the owner of the world and everything that dwells thereof (Ps.24:1) and by whom everything is being preserved (Heb.2:10).
From a believer to a Spirit-lead creature (Gal.5:18):
Here the man who has accepted to follow Christ (‘when he has brought out all those that are his, he goes ahead of them and the sheep follow because they know his voice’ Jn.10:4) will now begin to make efforts to understand and know his master more(James 4:8) by imbibing the fear of God in all his/her activities whether seen by others or not because there is now a new knowledge that one day man will stand to answer for every thought, word, action, desires, intentions e.t.c involved-in within his span in the world (Isaiah 48:22, Gal.6:7) before the judgment throne of God (Mtt.25:31-46), reading and listening to the word of God in order to gain knowledge of God (‘my people perish for want of knowledge…’Hosea 4:6), understanding what prayer is by rephrasing these words(“…Lord teach us to pray as John taught his disciples” Lk.11:1) to God, praying consistently (1Thess.5:17) for clarification (“call on me, I will answer you and I will teach you the secrets you know nothing about” Jer.33:3) as well as putting into practice what was learnt from the Word and the directions from the Spirit through our encounter with him in our prayers. Here the Spirit teaches us about sin, virtue and judgment thus ‘and when he comes he will show the world how wrong it was about sin and about who was right and about judgment: about sin in that they refuse to believe in me; about who was in the right: in that I am going to the Father and you will see me no more; about judgment: in that the prince of this world is already condemned’ {Jn.16:8-11}. It is at this level that we encounter great difficulty because our old passions, friends, family relations, school-mates, office colleagues e.t.c will be put to serious war against the Spirit (Gal.5:16-18) but through endurance which is the power of God in us who believe (‘but to those who did accept him he gave the power to become children of God to those who believed in his name’ Jn.1:12) but His Love for us makes us more than conquerors (‘Can anything cut us off from the love of Christ? can hardships or distress, or persecution, or lack of food and clothing or threats or violence…No; we come through all these things triumphantly victorious by the power of Him who loved us’ Rom.8:35-37). More than conquerors are those who enjoy other people’s effort like the wife, children and relations of a governor share the victory of their loved one who won the elections but they have little or nothing to say about what he underwent to get to that position thus Christ came and died for our sin, taking victory over death then leaving us to enjoy all his riches by the mere mention of his name JESUS (Phil.2:10).
From a Spirit-lead creature to a drunk in the Spirit (Eph.5:17):
Here a Spirit-lead child of God moves out of his/her personal practice of Christian virtue within himself to the love and desire of making others come to the knowledge of God (Mtt.28:20, Col.4:5) as well as helping them maintain this new phase of life as much as possible with every sense of humility, wisdom and patience. Here the gifts and fruits of the Holy Spirit begin to manifest whether in the extrinsic or intrinsic mode (1 Cor.12:1-11). At this level all decisions, actions, thoughts, desires are made after consultations with the Holy Spirit through prayers (Jer.33:3) and others whom the Spirit may lead you to for further clarification and direction (Mal.2:7; “the lips of priest contains knowledge and in their mouths should the law be sought”. Acts.9:10-18; the encounter of Ananias with Saul at his conversion).
From a drunk in the Spirit to a consistent child of God (Isaiah 40:31, Isaiah 11:5):
The man whose desire to make others maintain their integrity with God (Job.27:5) puts in all at his beck and call to maintain his own union with God through feeding on the body and Blood of Christ (Our Righteousness, Savior and Keeper; 1 Cor.1:30), fasting and praying with sincerity of purpose (Acts.13:2, 1 Cor.13:1-13) since the scripture noted “but those who hope on the Lord will regain their strength, they will sprout wings like eagles, though they run they will not grow weary though they walk they will never tire” [Isaiah 40:31] and ‘uprightness will be the belt around his waist and constancy the belt about his hips’ (Isaiah 11:5) as we know that it is only those who persevere to the end will be saved (Mtt.24:13).
From a consistent child of God to a son awaiting the crown of Heavens Glory (2 Tim.4:6-8):
Having consistently obeyed the Holy Spirit in all humility, patience, love and joy (Rom.14:17-19), one can then begin to see the fruits of his labor in those he has nurtured to carry on in this great and wonderful task for replacement as the first apostles did to close up the vacancy of Judas by ordaining Mathias (Acts.1:15-26) also this function is performed by the legally ordained as well as obedient Bishops of the Church of Christ (Mtt.16:18-19) who today ordain our  brothers after long years of formation in the seminary to take their place for continuity because Christ is the foundation of the church (Mtt.16:18) who is the same today, yesterday and forever (Heb.13:8). This is what gave Paul great joy in his son Timothy when he told him to fan into flame the Spirit he received from God through him at the laying on of his hands (2 Tim.1:6) as he awaits the crown of glory which Christ will give him and all those who remained steadfast under the direction of the Holy Spirit (2 Tim.4:6-8) which is the Spirit that will raise (‘and suddenly there was a violent earthquake, for the angel of the Lord, descending from heaven, came and rolled away the stone and sat on it’ Mtt.28:2) those who obeyed (“he was humbler yet, even to accepting death, death on a cross” Phil.2:8)till the end like Jesus from the dead and take them to the right hand of God as Jesus was ascended after forty days of being with his apostles (Lk.24:50-53)

CHOOSING TO FOLLOW THE ULTIMATE GOOD (MAINTENANCE CULTURE)


Many have decreed, desired, yearned and longed to follow the path way that leads to GOD (the Ultimate Good ‘Gen.1:31’) Our Righteousness (1 Cor.1:30) and His Blessings (Gen.12:3, Ex.19:5, Num.6:24-26, Deut.28:1-14) but all to no avail because we fail to understand the steps towards HIM within this Heavenly Pathway (The One Church of Christ; Mtt.16:18-19) as

Knowledge of GOD (‘my people suffer for lack of knowledge…’ Hosea 4:6) i.e one needs to have an in-clew (“Show me the way of your precepts that I may reflect on your wonders” Ps.119:27) of what is being desired through reading the Holy Bible and imploring the Spirit to open the eyes of our mind (“open my eyes and I shall fix my gaze on the wonders of your Law” Ps.119:18) to understand what His Words holds for us or through the guidance of a wise but humble contemporary (‘…seek advice of every wise person…’ Tobit 4:5)

Accepting Jesus (‘Come to me, all you who labor and are overburdened and I will give you rest…’ Mtt.11:28-29) as our personal Lord and Savior via baptism whether infant (Mtt.19:14-14) or adult (Mtt.28:18-20) lest we return to the old path “the unbelievers whose minds have been blinded by the god of this world, so that they cannot see shining the light of the gospel of the glory of Christ, who is the image of GOD” [2 Cor.4:4] and be like the seed that fell on patches of rock which later withered away (Mtt.13:5-6) but we should pull of our old passions (“Do not allow yourselves to be shaped by the passions of your old ignorance” 1Pet.1:14) by submitting our Will-Power to the dictates, direction and control of the Holy Spirit; who alone can give us the GRACE to resist and renounce Devil and evil will flee from us hence we draw closer to GOD and He will take hold of our soul (James 4:7-8) because the salvation of our soul is more important to us than having a refreshed body parts (‘I shall wear myself out for your salvation… My eyes too are worn out waiting for your promise’ Ps.119:81-82)

Communion with GOD (“Come let us talk this over…” Isaiah 1:18)
This entails having a special quiet time/moment with THE ALONE BUT COMPLETE BEING (‘I am the Alpha and Omega’ Rev.22:13) within the early hours of the day ([at midnight, I rise to praise you Oh GOD for your just judgment ‘Ps.119:62’ ]midnight till 5AM) via contemplative prayers and reflection on THE WORD as it affects the submission of our WILL-POWER to the Holy Spirit (James 4:7) before Holy Mass in order to draft a special prayer intention for the day, the consciousness of which helps us to flee from sin and its environment (“with so many witnesses in great cloud all around us, we too then should throw off everything that weighs us down and the sin that clings so closely and with perseverance keep running in the race which lies ahead of us” Heb.12:1)

in order to ascertain how we stand with our GOD (‘…but the people who know their GOD will stand firm and take action’ Dan. 11:32)i.e getting to know our weak and strong points, thrashing out our weak points and reinforcing our strong points through a firm resolve (Joshua 24:15) on channeling the WILL- POWER towards what is good, pleasing and perfect to GOD (Rom.12:1-2) and the strength to carry out this strong but easy (Phil.4:13) task is often renewed (Isaiah 40:31) by a conscious awareness of the fact that we have the indwelling of the TRIUNE BUT ONE GOD of all possibilities (‘for nothing is impossible to GOD’Lk.1:37) in us when we worthily receive the Body and Blood of Christ (“for my flesh is real food and my blood is real drink” Jn.6:55)
and is only found in the Church of Christ because she alone has maintained the apostolic succession of the first twelve apostles who were given the authority to offer same sacrifice in HIS remembrance (Lk.22:19-20) for the life of the world (Jn.6:51) hence the world cannot exist in a day without a single Holy Mass (THE SUPREME SACRIFICE) which is the highest event that takes place in the whole world but we who have this privileged rarely partake consciously (both priests and the faithful) in it not to mention the issue of unworthy reception of the Holy Eucharist which has strangled the souls of many as it lead Judas to suicide that is why we have an arithmetic increase in the number of those who receive the Holy Eucharist with a corresponding Geometric increase in the number of atrocities in our world though not all who receive are guilty of this charge but a higher percentage as well as those who have disintegrated from this Heavenly nourishment due to sins like faction (Heresy; [Gal.5:21]), immorality (in all forms; Gal.5:19, Rom.1:28-32), unrepentant hearts (Acts.7:51) e.t.c .

COMMUNION WITH OTHERS AND ENVIRONMNENT (Jn.6:51, Ps.34:13-14)
The worthy reception of the Holy Eucharist spurs one into genuine love (1 Pet.4:8) for others as well as our environment not by giving up on a truth (‘Do not be led astray by all sorts of strange doctrines…’Heb.13:9) rather get rid of every form of deceit (Eph.4:31) in order to build strong, robust and flexible relationship/environment where injustice and wickedness will give way for genuine peace, love, justice, joy e.t.c (Ps.34:13-14) hence ‘the peace I give is not like the one the world gives’ but the Spirit of perseverance on the truth (“never give up on what is right” 2 Thess.3:13) because ‘you shall know the truth and the truth shall set you free (Jn.8:32) since the fundamental purpose of our existence on earth is to bear witness to the truth (‘…I was born for this, I came into the world for this, to bear witness to the truth…’ Jn.18:37) by helping ourselves to know when we are rejecting the Holy Spirit (Acts.7:51) through commission/omission (“others you must save by snatching them from fire; to others again you must be compassionate but wary, hating even the lust of their dressing” Jude 1:23) lest we submit to cowardice which purports us as people heading for the lake that burns with sulphur and brimstone (Hell; Rev.21:8) as we are aware that nothing unclean or defiled will enter the city (‘But what you have come to is Mount Zion and the city of the living GOD, the Heavenly Jerusalem where the millions of angels have gathered for the festival’ Heb.12:22)but only those who by their steadfastness (‘far from admitting you to be right, I shall maintain my integrity to my dying day’ Job 27:5) to what is right, pleasing and perfect in the sight of GOD will have their names scribbled on the Lambs book of life (Rev.21:27).   

FEAR NOT (Isaiah 43:1)
“…Do not be afraid, for I have redeemed you; I have called you by your name, you are mine” (Isaiah 43:1) hence we should not be moved even when it seems all efforts to maintain our integrity with GOD (Job 27:5) is not yielding the expected results but we have to continually return to HIM (‘but those who hope in GOD will regain their strength, they will sprout wings like eagles, though they run they will not grow weary, though they walk they will never tire’ Isaiah 40:31) through the sacrament of reconciliation (“Receive the Holy Spirit, whose sins you forgive have been forgiven and whose sins you retain have been retained” Jn.20:22-23)because He does not spurn a humble contrite heart (Ps.51:17) but one with haughty looks, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood (abortion inclusive [Lev.17:11]), a heart that weaves wicked plots, feet that hurry to do evil, a false witness who lies with every breath and one who sows dissension among brothers (Prov.6:16-19). The authority to forgive sins through the sacrament of reconciliation lies only within the ministerial priesthood of the Catholic church who are the only people with the apostolic succession of the first twelve apostles of Christ (Mtt.10:2-4) with Simon Peter as the head (Mtt.16:18-19), the shepherd who will feed His lamb after He is gone (Jn.21:15-17) and the spokesman of all his brethren on the day of Pentecost (“Men of Judaea, and all you who live in Jerusalem make no mistake about this, but listen carefully to what I say: These men are not drunk as you imagine…” Acts.2:14-36) hence ‘…the Church of the living GOD, pillar and support of the truth’ (1 Tim.3:15). Those who are outside the sheepfold trying to enter through some other way (Jn.10:1) are being invited by Christ the head of the BODY; the Church (Eph.6:23, Mtt.16:18) and Our Mother Mary (‘Mother behold thy Son, Son behold thy Mother…’ Jn.19:26) and all the members of the body (the branches of the True Vine []Jn.15:4-5) to follow the gate (Jn.10:2) begin the race and sustain it till the end since only those who persevere till the end will be giving the crown of unfading glory (2 Tim.4:8) and to make the journey light He gave us his Body and Blood so that those who receive HIM worthily will not die (Jn.6:50; give up their strength on the way) rather they will live forever (Jn.6:51; keep the fire burning till the end).

Saturday, May 26, 2012

THE WILL OF MAN (The Energy to choose between goodness and evil; Joshua 24:15)


The fundamental problem of man who is developmental being with Soul, Mind and Body presently is that we have channeled our will power and priority towards developing the mind (Intellect, fame, Carrier-pursuit) and body (fashion, glamour, wealth) with its ironical end; Death. Here the developed mind (brain) is left to the mercies of maggot and the wealth is transferred to next of kin or ‘an enemy’  confirming the words of St.Paul “what I am saying, brothers is that mere human nature cannot inherit the kingdom of GOD: what is perishable cannot inherit what is imperishable” (1 Cor.1:50) and with this we stand the risk of losing our soul to Devil who did blind the eyes of minds while on earth with affluence and fame lest we see the light of the gospel (2 Cor.4:4). Those who misuse their will power for evil the scripture tagged cowards (Rev.21:8) and their place is the lake that burns with sulphur and brimstone which is the second death.
We need to redirect our will power towards GOD from whom all Good things comes(Gen.1:31) by feeding our soul with HIS Words and cleansing our soul with prayers (Highest is the Holy Mass “without shedding of the blood there will be no forgiveness” Heb.9:22)so that we can overcome the temptations of our world and the darts of the enemy the devil. This re-alignment of the will of man will avail us of the opportunity of being his Special Treasure as he promised in Exodus 19:5 ‘If therefore, you obey my commandments and maintain my covenant I shall make of you a special treasure unto me of all the people on the earth, for the whole earth is mine’ hence “I shall bless those who bless you and shall curse those who curse you and all clans on earth will bless themselves by you” (Gen.12:3). A move in this direction debays us from giving what is sacred (Our Bodies [1 Cor.3:16-17]) to dogs (Devil [Rev.12:2]) as the scripture admonished us (Mtt.7:6).

UNWILLING TO COMMUNICATE WITH GOD (‘Come; let us talk this over…’ Isaiah 1:18)


Because of sin, ill-health, fear, anxieties, worries, problems, seemingly unanswered prayers (1 Sam.16:7 ‘my ways are different from yours’) e.t.c we are being admonished by Our Lord not to give up hence “Pray always and do not lose heart” LK.18:1 because “…the Spirit too comes to help us in our weakness, for when we do not know how to pray properly, then the Spirit personally makes our petitions for us in groans that cannot be put into words and He who can see into all hearts knows what the Spirit means because the prayers that the Spirit makes for God’s holy people are always in accordance with the mind of GOD” (Rom.8:26-27)i.e whether the environment is conducive or not, we ought to glorify GOD through Whom everything is being preserved (Heb.2:10), Who is supreme over nations and the whole world (Ps.46:10), the Master and Lord of the Universe (Sirach 36:1) and the One from whom everything derived its good origin (Gen.1:31)
If we fail to maintain our communication link (Prayer) with the Complete Being (Alpha and Omega; Rev.22:13) then we definitely begin to walk towards despair (Rev.21:8) which is a factor that makes us susceptible to the accusations of satan before our GOD (Rev.12:10) hence providing obstacles to the solution of our problems/weakness as the prince of Persia did towards Daniel prayers (Dan.10:9-14) but insisting on prayers (the Highest of which is the HOLY MASS [Lk.22:19-20, Jn.6:51,53-58, Lk.24:35]),  meditating, sharing as well as living on His Holy Words which gives us vantage over our enemies, teachers, elders including restraining from evil paths(Ps.119:97-101).

MAN A TRANSCENDENTAL BEING (Gen.1:26-28)


Man was brought forth into the world thus ‘The Lord God shaped man from the soil of the ground and blew the breath of life into his nostrils and man became a living being’ {Gen.2:7} hence we are earth-bound (living in the flesh; Gal.5:19-21) and must return to earth (dust you are and to dust you must return) but the breath of life giving to us by God makes us heaven bound where God dwells (‘our God is in heaven and He does whatever he wills’ Ps.115:3 & “but our homeland is in heaven and it is from there that we are expecting a Savior, the Lord Jesus Christ” Phil.3:20) as well as a composite of two warring parties (‘the desires of self-indulgence are always in opposition to the Spirit, and the desires of the Spirit are in opposition to the self-indulgence: they are opposites, one against the other; that is how you are prevented from doing the things that you want to’ Gal.5:17) but by the shedding of His Blood (Heb.9:22, Rev.12:11) on the cross of calvary for the whole human race (‘after Jesus had taken the wine he said, It is fulfilled and bowing his head he gave up his spirit’ Jn.19:30), he transfigured the wretched body of ours into the mould of his glorious body through the working of the power which he has, even to bring all things under his mastery (Phil.3:21) hence Christ has made us masters of everything in the world (Gen.1:26), righteous people for Christ our Redeemer is our Righteousness (1 Cor.1:30) who replaced our old life of sin with his own thus “so Christ too, having offered himself only once to bear the sin of many will manifest himself a second time, sin being no more to those who are waiting for him, to bring them salvation” [Heb.9:28] and people who are trained to be on the alert (‘so stay awake, because you do not know when the master of the house is coming, evening, midnight, cockcrow or dawn’ Mk.12:35) and conscious (“who else is there for me in heaven? And with you, I lack nothing on earth” Ps.73:25) of our home where we belong as firstborn sons and daughters (Heb.12:22-24) having being sent into the world to testify to this truth (‘…I was born for this; I came into the world for this, to bear witness to the truth…’ Jn.18:37).

The question we should ask ourselves today is; are we actually the masters of our world and its events (family principles and rules, office behaviors, fashion demeanors, market regulations, state laws, church doctrines, entertainment ideals, laws of institutions, relationship between individuals e.t.c)? or are they masters over us hence subjecting our personality to mockery thus ‘righteousness exalts a nation while sin is a reproach to the people’ (Prov.14:34) and this is cowardice “but the legacy for cowards, for those who break their word or worship obscenities for murderers and the sexually immoral and for sorcerers, worshippers of false gods or any other sort of liars is the second death in the burning lake of sulphur” (Rev.21:8).

Brethren, we need to be conscious of our home in whatever we are doing lest we give up our heritage to the enemy who is ever on the prowl to destroy souls (1 Pet.5:7-8)pulling us away from the glory we share with God as the scripture stated ‘ye are gods’. If we are therefore matching towards heaven we need to maintain our integrity with HIM (job.27:5) by letting the law of the Spirit to be the rule of our lives (Gal.5:25) thus ‘be lead by the Spirit’ (Gal.5:18), “be drunk of the Spirit” {Eph.5:17} so that our imperishable being will be able to inherit the imperishable(1 Cor.15:50) of our Father’s home (Mtt.6:9) since it is only what is born of human nature is human; what is born of the Spirit is spirit (Jn.3:6).

This consciousness for our home will be more visible in our environment when we begin to clothe ourselves for the glory of God (Rom.8:13) even those around us; giving out those decent clothes, shoes, jewelleries e.t.c  we leave out on our wardrobe from January to December as decorating materials to those who are naked including our houseboys, house-maid and friends for a prayer of blessing on our behalf.

Thinking home; most of us have migrated from one rural areas to the city which was designed and developed by other peoples effort but find it very difficult to attend to the fundamental needs of our nuclear families, kindred, village, towns problem which lead to the migration rather we choose to wallow in affluence in these areas hence at the break of the book-haram many who had multiple duplex were forced to squat in their brothers house who they initially refer to as a peasant farmer and refused to contribute to their children’s school fees as well as partake in the meals prepared by their brothers wife or mother who was formally nicknamed a witch. The friends and relations we easily forget when we get to the city now provides the mania job used to make little money for feeding the family as well as opting to carter for our well being including the school fees of our children. Those initially called village boys and girls are now the only succor you have. The Lord owns the world and all that dwells therein (Ps.24:1), “The Lord makes poor and rich, he humbles and also exalts” (1 Sam.2:7). Let us begin to use our high positions and offices to better the lifestyle, carrier and behavior of our people both in our place of residence as well as nuclear home in a balanced manner for this is real faith (how does it help, when someone who has never done a single good act claims to have faith? Will that faith bring salvation? James 2:14)

HOLY SPIRIT (ACTS.2:1-13)



LET US AVAIL OURSELVES THE OPPORTUNITY OF RENEWING THE EVER-PRESENT COMPANION OF OUR LIFE WHICH HAS BEEN MADE LATENT (INACTIVE) BY OUR SINFUL LIFESTYLES (EPH.4:30) VIA ATTENDING THE PENTECOST WEEK PROGRAM IN OUR DIFFERENT DIOCESAN SECREATARIATS

TALKS , SEMINARS, PRAYERS AND PENTECOST MIDNIGHT MASS
FOR THOSE WHO CANNOT ATTEND;
DRAFT A SPECIAL PRAYER PROGRAM FOR MIDNIGHT PRAYER (12:00AM-3:00AM; 'AT MIDNIGHT I RISE TO PRAISE YOU OH GOD FOR YOUR JUST JUDGMENT' PS.119:62) THIS MID-NIGHT PRAYER PROGRAM SHOULD BE GEARED TOWARDS REVOLUTION FROM SIN-CONTOLLED LIFE TO SPIRIT LEAD LIFE (GAL.5:18, EPH.5:17) FOR BETTER THINGS TO BEGIN HAPPENING IN OUR LIVES ("SO FOR ANYONE WHO IS IN CHRIST, THERE IS A NEW CREATION: THE OLD ORDER IS GONE AND A NEW BEING IS THERE TO SEE" 2COR.5:17).

'SINCE WE ARE LIVING BY THE SPIRIT, LET OUR BEHAVIOR BE GUIDED BY THE SPIRIT' (GAL.5:25).AMEN.

THE FEAR OF GOD


In a world where the vast majority of people are purportedly followers of Christ (including myself) who came and died for us that we may have life in abundance (Jn.10:10) hence “consumatum est” (it is fulfilled/finished; Jn.19:30) was finally declared by the Son of God, he breathed his last and to confirm that He was truly the Son of GOD nature applauded his brevity (only those who persevere to the end will be saved) thus ‘and suddenly, the veil of the Sanctuary was torn in two from top to bottom, the earth quaked, the rocks were split, the tombs opened and the bodies of many people rose from the dead and these after his resurrection came out of the tombs entered the holy city and appeared to a number of people’ {Mtt.27:51-53}. Then what is the reason for man’s inhumanity on the other?

Majority of the parents, priests, preachers, teachers, friends, colleagues e.t.c go ahead bombarding us with every other teaching about GOD (Deut.11:18-21) while leaving out the most important and the basic building block for true followership; THE FEAR OF GOD (“The fear of The Lord is the beginning of knowledge; fools spurn wisdom and discipline” Prov.1:7) as well as the retributive justice of GOD (‘No sinner will go unpunished’) rather we blame, magnify and glorify satan for accidents, problems, our misbehaviors e.t.c from a subtle snake (Gen.3:1) to a dragon (Rev.12:3) hence accruing glory to the fear of the devil than the FEAR OF GOD which makes people believe satan can take away human life while the scripture stated “The Lord gives death and life, brings down to sheol and draws up” (1 Sam.2:6).

It is the GOD of Justice (‘we are well aware that people who behave like that are justly condemned by God’ Rom.2:2) whose temple (1 Cor.3:16) we are that punishes us (“There is no peace for the wicked” Isaiah 48:22) when we defile our bodies (‘if anybody should destroy the temple of God, God will destroy that person because God’s temple is holy and you are that temple’ 1 Cor.3:17) hence we suffer the beatings from the conscience and deduce the mishaps of our present predicaments as the results of our past lifestyles that were in opposition to GOD’s glory (1 Cor.10:31).

The opposition to GOD’s glory is evil (the devil [1 Pet.5:8-9]) and evil is real on earth (“…but for you earth and sea, disaster is coming because the devil has gone down to you in a rage knowing that he has little time left” Rev.12:12) but to them that fear GOD, evil forces are negligible because “they have triumphed over him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word to which they bore witness, because even in the face of death they did not cling to life” {Rev.12:11}. The fear of GOD in a man/woman makes a person ever consistent in righteousness even in the face of death (trials and tribulations) since Jesus Christ is our righteousness (1 Cor.1:30) who said ‘I have told you all this so that you may find peace in me. In the world you will have hardship but be courageous I have conquered the world’ [Jn.16:33] and he is the Jesus Christ of yesterday, today and forever (Heb.13:8) hence whether we are in the office, inside our room, on the road, in the school, on top of the mountain, in the darkest part of the night/earth e.t.c where someone is watching or not (“where shall I go to escape your spirit? Where shall I flee from your presence...?” Ps.139:7-12); we continue to maintain our integrity with GOD (Job 27:5) bearing in mind that there is a penalty for every act, thought and desire of man (‘I, the Lord search the heart, test the motives to give each person what his conduct and his actions deserve’ Jer.17:10, Gal.6:7) and “righteousness exalts a nation while sin is a reproach to the people” {Prov.14:34}, ‘for those who aimed for glory, honor and immortality by persevering in doing good, there will be eternal life’ [Rom.2:7]. The stubborn act of disobeying God will bring us great distress and retribution some time, somewhere in the future thus “your stubborn refusal to repent is only storing up retribution for yourself on that day of retribution when God’s just verdicts will be made known” (Rom.2:5) and this referral ‘but for those who out of jealousy have taken for their guide not truth but injustice, there will be fury of retribution. Trouble and distress will come to every human being who does evil…’ Rom.2:9.

Some people misconstrue grace which was brought to our weak human nature through the death and resurrection of Christ as license to disobeying God hence let me go and commit fornication after I will go and confess my sins forgetting that pain and calamity will visit any human being who deliberately does evil (Rom.2:9) after we have been given knowledge of the truth (Heb.10:26-27) since the scripture noted “Don’t delude yourself: God is not to be fooled; whatever someone sows, that is what he will reap” {Gal.6:7}. The sacrament of reconciliation relieves us from the punishment of entering the pit of hell for disobeying GOD (Jn.20:22-23) but the justice of God we will pay with our blood to make amendment for treating with disdain the blood of the covenant which was used to sanctify mankind (Heb.10:29) via almsgiving, restitution, mortification, fasting, indulgence e.t.c

The presence of Holy Spirit in man is therefore wholly ascertained by consistency in righteousness (‘be holy as He is holy’ 1Pet.1:16 and “those who wait on the Lord will have their strength renewed, their wings sprout like an eagle’s; though they run they will not be weary, though they walk they will not get tired” Is.40:31) not via miracles, prophecy, signs and wonders, speaking in tongues though they are good attributes of God’s children (1Cor.12:4-11). Consistency in righteousness is brought about by the conscious awareness of the GOD of justice in us (activation of the Fear of God in our conscious and sub-conscious nature) which is made possible by drawing closer to GOD (James 4:7-8) via partaking in the Holy Mass everyday (Heb.9:22), visit to the Blessed Sacrament (Mtt.11:28-29), imploring the intercession of the saints whose prayers ascend the throne of God like pleasing incense (Rev.5:4, 8:4) via saying the Holy rosary and reflecting on the virtues they practiced while on earth, creating a personal time for God in silent prayer to understand Him better (‘call on me, I will answer you and I will teach you the secrets you know nothing about’ Jer.33:3), reading and sharing the Word of God with yourself and others (Col.4:5), having a prayer intention for each day which reflects in all your activities for the day (Lk.18:1) hence you keep watch over your heart with Godly thoughts since in it lies the wellsprings of life.

The sooner we start the process of activating the spirit of the FEAR OF GOD in us, the better for our soul (‘but now declare the Lord come back to me with your heart fasting, weeping, mourning. Tear your hearts and not your clothes and come back to the lord your God… who knows if he will not come back, relent and leave a blessing behind him’ Joel 2:12-14) because no one knows the time, place or moment when the Son of man will come. To those who are already standing by the grace of GOD “I am coming soon: hold firmly to what you already have and let no one take your victor’s crown away from you” {Rev.3:11}  because it is only those that persevere to the end that will receive the crown of unfading glory [2 Tim.4:8].

Friday, January 13, 2012

ARE YOU A PORNOGRAPHY ADDICT?


ARE YOU ADDICTED TO PORNOGRAPHY?

 I found very little information on the internet to aid my own personal struggle with pornography addiction. However, through therapy and study, I developed a personal plan that helped me begin to break free of the addiction. I wrote up my plan and, thinking it might be useful to others, I posted it online.

 Something surprising happened: I began to get email from people all over the world telling me how helpful the article was. In this article we will have a look at the practical ways of controlling pornography addiction.

Although most of us have learned a great deal more than what this original article teaches, we keep it posted here because it has helped so many take those first daring steps into sobriety. For a more thorough understanding of porn addiction and recovery, I hope that you will consider reading " Ten Keys to Breaking Pornography Addiction." While the following essay was written early in my personal journey, " Ten Keys " reflects my experiences ten years later and I believe will be an even more powerful tool in your recovery efforts.


Breaking Pornography Addiction:
A Plan for Personal Success

Introduction

You have an addiction. It isn't a public addiction, like alcoholism. With alcoholism, the last person to know he is an alcoholic is the alcoholic. Support groups exist for alcoholics. If you go to Alcoholics Anonymous, people support you because they know you are seeking help.

But you are addicted to pornography, and pornography addiction is a secret thing. You may be the only one who knows you are addicted. If you went to a support group for pornography addicts and your friends found out, or if your spouse found out, they might be very disappointed in you. You might hurt feelings, break hearts. Friends and family probably don't know you're addicted to pornography. They probably think you're a fine, upstanding, loving man or woman. You know what? They're probably right.

You see, pornography addicts come from all walks of life. They're blue collar laborers and white collar executives; they're handsome and they're homely; they're Christian, Jewish, and atheist; they're all races and creeds. They're single, they're married and they're fathers/mothers. They can be lazy and they can be diligent community volunteers.

Some want to control their addiction and some do not.

You want to control your addiction.

I say "control" your addiction, because you need to realize you will never "eliminate" your addiction -- you will always be addicted. When I refer to breaking your addiction, I mean it in the same sense you might break a horse. Breaking a horse means you gain control over it -- it submits to your will. You don't take it out and shoot it.

You're like a diabetic. Diabetes won't go away (at least no one has found a cure yet), but it can be controlled.

"But that's not fair," you say. "Why do I have this addiction?" It isn't fair. Diabetes isn't fair either. It's just one of the inconveniences of being human. Some people get it, some people don't. But just because you get it, doesn't mean you should give in to it. And you've got pornography addiction. You always will -- it won't go away. But you can control it. And by control, I don't mean you can reduce the amount of pornography you look at. I mean you can stop looking at, listening to, or seeking out pornography all together. But it is going to take effort. It is going to take commitment. It is going to take resolution that you won't give up, no matter how discouraging it gets. It is going to take PRAYER. It is going to take TIME.

Most addicts have been controlled by pornography most of their lives. That's a lot of programming to overcome. In fact, you may want to seek professional counseling for your addiction. The only challenge with counseling is that some therapists don't have the experience to help you, and many do not even think you need help. Many professionals don't consider pornography addiction a problem. Certainly not to the degree that you understand it to be. Oh, and one more thing: professionals can cost #10,000 or more each month.

So I'm writing this little brochure because I think it can help you. It's short. It's to the point. It contains what has worked for me, and I hope and pray it works for you. You see, I'm addicted to pornography too. But I was lucky; after years of praying and searching, I found a counselor who understood my desire to control my addiction. Like me, he believed that at the very least, pornography made it difficult to get close to GOD and to live the type of happy life I was seeking.

It's taken several years, thousands of naira in therapy fees and lots of prayer, but today I am in more control than I have ever been. Using what I have learned from my therapist and incorporating my own experience, I have developed a very simple plan that helps me get through each day, one day at a time. I hope it can help you.

Dealing with the Guilt

Chances are, you are probably extremely hard on yourself. Your addiction can be discouraging, and can seriously damage your self-esteem. You may go for a few weeks or months without a problem, and then -- Whumm! -- you fall in the hole again. And when you're in a hole, it's easy to feel very worthless.

All I can say is, don't beat yourself up! You aren't perfect. God knows what you are trying to accomplish here. You are trying to overcome an addiction, an addiction that didn't develop overnight. Don't expect to gain control over your addiction overnight. I didn't develop my plan in one day; I developed my plan after years of trying, failing and learning. Give yourself a break.

Think of it this way. You are taking steps to change your life for the better. You are going to feel closer to GOD during this process of change than you have in a long time. As you prayerfully seek his assistance in changing your life, you might also ask him to help you keep your progress in perspective. Are you seeking out pornography every day? Then going two days without seeking it out is a major accomplishment! Recognize that, because God certainly does.

He wants you to succeed, and he'll help you get to the point where you have control of your life again. But right now, he knows your weaknesses. He loves you more than you can understand, despite your mistakes.

Being clean three days does not excuse sinning on the fourth, but you need to understand that you have actually accomplished something positive. And you can do much better next time.

My personal plan helps me focus on the goal, much more than on the problem. That's why it works for me, and I hope it works for you. I think it will. When you focus on a goal, and reward your own successes, you are going to experience an increased sense of self worth. Determine at the outset that when you occasionally stumble (because you will -- at first), you will pick yourself up and not give up. Your own plan might need some adjustments, but DON'T GIVE UP! If you've been addicted ten years, it's going to take a long time to change patterns. Start again, one day at a time.

Each day that you succeed will increase your self-worth, and give you added strength to succeed tomorrow. So don't worry about succeeding tomorrow. Just worry about succeeding today, and rewarding yourself tonight.

Controlling Your Thoughts

Pornography addiction begins in your mind. Some people think about it and some people don't. For many people, pornography doesn't interest them, just like auto mechanics or gardening might not interest you. But for the pornography addict, pornography is extremely interesting.

You might not be someone who spends a lot of time thinking lustful thoughts. Lustful thoughts can certainly increase your desire to find pornography. But that might not be your particular spark.

Maybe you associate feelings of insecurity or loneliness with sex. Some people, when they're feeling lonely, turn to masturbation or pornography. Such simulated sex makes them feel un-lonely, at least for a little while. If that's your situation, you need to realize that loneliness is part of life. Even the most happily married man in the world feels lonely once in a while.

Create an action plan for the times you are alone. Learn to enjoy being alone. Do housework, or study, or exercise. Get out of the house and get your heart pumping. Don't worry about whether you'll be tempted again when you get back. You're not exercising to keep from seeking out pornography -- you're exercising because you enjoy it, you are alone and now is the perfect opportunity.

Find things you love to do, that you can do when you're alone.

Controlling your thoughts is like driving down the freeway. Have you ever driven at a high speed and suddenly heard your tires thumping over the reflectors on the lane's dividing line? You hadn't noticed yourself swerving out of your lane, but now you hear the warning of the bumps under your tires. So what do you do? Probably, without even thinking, you correct your steering and pull away from the line.

That's what you are trying to do with your thoughts. Whenever you get in a situation that might tempt you to indulge in pornography, you need to make adjustments in your thinking and actions to get you away from danger. At first that will take a great deal of effort, but as your instincts improve, you'll find yourself steering clear of hazards with hardly any thought at all.

Let's say you are staying in a hotel that offers adult programming on television. Well, most hotels also allow you to disconnect adult programming. You probably need to call the front desk the moment you arrive in your room and ask them to disconnect the service. Even though you aren't tempted when you arrive, late at night you might be, and you want to make sure it is unavailable. You may have to do the same thing 20 years from now, even though it's been two decades since you've sought out pornography -- remember, you're an addict; you will always be addicted. You will always have to take precautions.

You are an addict. You have a disease. You have to take efforts every day to avoid pornography. MAYBE YOU HAVE TO CANCEL YOUR INTERNET ACCOUNT.

There are things that you aren't strong enough to resist. You'll get stronger and wiser, but right now you may have to deny yourself some things. Listen to your thoughts. Are you rationalizing? Pay attention to the things you rationalize -- they're probably the very areas where you are weakest.

Fill your mind with something uplifting when you catch an unpleasant thought creeping onto the stage of your mind. Maybe you can sing a favorite song to yourself, or recite an inspiring poem, scripture or quote.

Just remember, every day for the rest of your life, you need to actively resist pornography. So, here is my plan.

One Day at a Time

Start today. My plan works best if you start today and don't put it off. Make sure you have gotten rid of any pornography in your home. Throw it out.  If you are a lady make sure your dressing does not present pornography for others. If it's around, you will fail. Remember, right now you are weak. You have to resist each day.

When you've finished reading this paper and understand the plan, take time to pray. You need to appeal to a higher power outside of you if you hope to succeed. Prayer draws you closer to GOD and will give you extra strength. In fact, at times GOD will come to your aid and intervene to protect you if he knows you are sincerely trying and depending on HIM.

Don't worry that you don't feel worthy to talk with GOD. HE still wants you to pray to HIM. So, if you aren't a praying person, why not give it a try? And if you feel like you've come to him so many times already, let him know that you have a new plan, and you want his help in accomplishing it.

In your own words, explain to GOD that you're addicted to pornography, and that you will do everything you can to control your addiction, but that you need his help to make up the difference.

Now, determine how much you can afford to pay yourself each day. Five naira? Twenty naira? Fifty naira? One hundred naira? It depends on your income-level and personal budget, but what you are doing is saving for a big reward. Pay yourself each day that you avoid pornography.

Your goal is to give yourself something great after your first 100 days. And it needs to be something totally extravagant that you would never spend money on otherwise. Maybe visiting a tourist site, taking yourself out to an uncompromising environment.  

Your goal will increase. Your first goal is to go 100 days. After you've made it, your next goal will be to reward yourself after 250 days. And then reward yourself once a year. So each year you will have #7300 or more to spend on something purely fun.

Every night, after I say my prayers, I take twenty naira bill out of an envelope I keep in my drawer, and after every 10 days I put it in my new bank account designated purely for this purpose. It's a great feeling. Every once in a while I take the money out of the bank and count it. That's how many days I've gone without seeking pornography. And I keep a tally of when I spend it so I know when I've gone more than a year in a row successfully.

But what happens when you fail? Well, you have to give the money away. Pick a charity. Maybe it's your church, maybe it's your social group, and maybe it's a local arts group or a service organization. But pick a charity. When you fail, you're going to send them all the money in your bank.

AND THEN YOU ARE GOING TO START AGAIN!

That's all there is to it. That's my plan.

• Eliminate all the pornography in your home including your dressing-attitude

• Pray for help

• Determine how much you can afford to save each day

• Pick a reward for yourself after the first 100 days

• Open a bank account where you will save your money  

• Pay yourself each day that you successfully avoid pornography

• If you stumble, give all the money in your bank to your favorite charity

• After 100 days of success, reward yourself

• After the next 250 days, reward yourself

• Reward yourself each subsequent year for the rest of your life

Don't beat yourself up when you stumble. Remember that what you are trying to accomplish is a major undertaking. You can do it. And as you progress, GOD will bless your life with incredible joy. You will become more self-disciplined, and you will be happier than you have ever been. GOD bless us all with success. Amen.




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